10-year-old Girl Was Raped!

Hey dont worry my friend
10-year-old Girl Was Raped!

hey my friend

don't worry

I understand your feelings and how much struggle you are facing right now.

there are many guys who understand you and agree to stay love with you and marry.  I hope it.

You wantedly never done it.  Other person cruelly did it.

I say that you are GREAT because no one shares the story of themselves openly, you are brave and your heart is pure which is known by your words that you are unable to marry or love others as something happened in your childhood.

 Please don't become a person of sexually expressable person.  You have very good heart.  I hope someone will understand u and live with you life long.

 I'm younger than you and from foreign, so I can't live with you.

HAVE A NICE DAY!

-reply by chandra kanth

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You know... "if" you do look at nude girls on the net, i would presume you think that because this activity is concealed no harm is done. But i would like you to focus on the perspective that perhaps this is a vicariously liable action on your part.

I say this because although your not condoning the circulation of such things, you will not use any of your influence to "object" to those who do share such pictures. That sort of acceptance by people, green lights harsh abuse on children by the unsympathetically detached in our society.

Although you may have control from allowing your problem to become worse, you should at least read over what you said in earlier posts and then think in the context of how you might influence dangerous individuals who come across your posts.

It may influence them, by "planting" more ideas in their heads and further motivating towards an unforgivable act. I mean it "could", you cant deny the possibility it wouldn't.

What about trying to adopt more acceptable fetishes involving your woman? I'm sure she wouldn't object. Just explore the grounds with her a bit more, to see if it surprises you?

I hope you become a nay sayer like the rest of us and I hope some of your issues will be resolved.

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why are you calling me einstein? i sense sarcasm, i was asking simple questions because i didn't know the answers. the only reason why i'mn asking is because you had chosen to be open about your sick thoughts. am i to assume you are not going to be open anymore?

it's hard....isn't it....having unnormal thoughts you can't tell anyone in fear of being judged and an outcast. and hey, i am assuming they are just thoughts. so let me ask you a question in how far you take those thought. have you ever gone to an illegal website that promotes small young girls who are in the nude? have you ever tried to find those sites?

now as far as letting me assume and guess all by myself in whether you lie to your wife and your marriage in keeping things hidden from her and your kids, i would have to say yes....you do. am i wrong in my assumptions? if i am correct, then what kind of marriage is it really? without any sort of sacred bond besides the sexual activity you performed to create 2 innocent human beings?

do you see where i am getting at? you say you have your thoughts under control, but i say you don't because your thoughts create other circumstances that would be rejected as well in every day society that has it;'s own seperate issues aside from your sick thoughts about young girls.

by not getting help with your thoughts, you are choosing to live a lie besides opening up in a semi anonymous place on the internet where nobody knows you. and even THAT can be argued but that's a whole different issue.

for me personally, i commend you for your openess in this thread no matter how sick your thoughts because people will be ignorant to certain issues of life if those issues never come to the surface. issues that people can actually take some time to think about what is right or wrong and correcting those issues in society so that certain issues don't spread like a plague.

you admit that your thoughts are wrong but still choose to have them. that's called a sickness and it also means you don't have control over your thoughts or you would make the clear choice to get help with them. i for one hope you get some help. not just for your sake, but for your wife and sons as you have chosen to get married and create children and be around them. you don't have a full understanding on how your thoughts affect them even when you try your best to hide your thoughts and not allow them to truely know who you are fully. that's a pretty sad and lonely life, wont you agree?

also....people who hide themselves for only themselves to understand fully have to build up lies that builds upon more lies. don't try to fool me saying your thoughts are in control....because next thing you're going to say is that the lies you create in your own life are in control too...can we agree by not telling someone the truth about something a lie? and is decieving?

now this whole post wasn't intended to point out my firm belief that you are a sicko, but to help you understand how you are living and how things can occur indirectly when you choose to live a certain way knowing it is wrong. that is my point to this post if you haven't already thought of those other issues.

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oh, hi again. Thanks for your concern for my boys' welfare. Since you ask, no I won't be raising them to have my 'sick imagination'. Actually I know my little fetish is a bad habit and my thoughts are not healthy ones, but, like any bad habit, by its very definition - I enjoy it, and i want to keep it (if you can grasp that logic). I know full well i can control it, whereas maybe others couldn't. I would wish my sons to be something better than me, and much more orthodox in their 'sexual/romantic impulses' let's say.

As for you wondering if my wife knows .. do i let her know that i'm thinking of every underage girl i see out there in a sexual way? Well, i'll let you figure that one for yourself, Einstein.

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All i can say, english41yoguy is you are a uniquely open individual and in a way that does have its merits. There are many suppressed "inner demons" that adults don't admit too for obvious reasons. It is true, often in philosophy and psychology it is iterated that we deny some of natural inclinations for the sake of what is "socially acceptable".

What concerns me is how far do you entertain such thoughts? (the ones you have described)? Because i believe "that" is a big factor to think about. Personally i prefer to not dwell on any such thoughts "whoever" it may be about in my own mind.

I'm not sure, i cant make a confident judgment about you.... which is a little concerning to me. Perhaps you should check with someone (a psych) if you haven't already (just to be sure). You may indeed be totally o.k, but I'm not sure...

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