I hate when women act stupid.. They do something wrong and you ignore em, they ask 'What I do?' wtf you think you did. I know your day wasn't that busy that you can't remember why I'm not talkin to you.

When you ask your woman to do something and she does something else..What are you here for if you don't follow directions. I asked my woman to do ONE thing and that was put off. Talking about I had other things to do...Who's more important your man or other things..No you don't need to think about it, it's only one right answer.

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This post has been edited by whyme: May 18 2005, 11:56 PM

So you're not joking about [-Center of the Universe-] then?

But seriously, what you've gotta understand about men & women is that they think differently. Just cos you think she shoulda thought of something, doesn't mean she has, so she may have no idea about why you're upset. The same works in reverse. Now I don't know what the exact situation is, I'm just giving you general advice.

The best way to avoid/resolve conflict is not to assume the other shoulda done something or shoulda known or whatever and to actually talk about what's bugging you instead of bottling it up.

As for this:

...sounds like you're after a servant rather than a partner.

That's a bit selfish, keeping your woman all to yourself. You should respect her and give her some room. Sometimes, other things could be urgent, and come first. You wouldn't like it either, when you want to do something you're really looking forward to, and your wife wants you to do something for her.



Honestly, that reminds me of men. But of course, anyone can do that, but it usually happens to be men more often.



OK, so you can get angry about that, but won't you try to be a little more patient? You could make her FEEL MORE LOVED, and she'll be even more willing to do things for you and to follow your directions. Trust me, I know... I'm a woman. But you said...



So are you saying you just married to get a maid? So you're saying wives are just there to follow your directions their whole lives married to you!?

Be sensitive, she's human too! She wants to do her things, and you do yours! Being married means a lot of responsibility. You should each do your part.

It's not like I'm against you or anything, I understand that you got angry with that, but you should think about why she's doing these things... Is something bothering her? Is she spacing out? Why don't you ask her? Maybe you're the only one who can
make her better.

Good luck with that!

Well, why don't you tell her how you fell, that you don't think she's more than just a thing you own. That she isn't entitled to free will, and that she has to do whatever you say. That to you she is no more than a slave.

I'm sure you both will be much happier, or at least she will.

I suggest you to try to think about your posts before posting some middle-aged sexual role cliches. You know, I hate everyone when act stupid. And of course, people are in places for more things apart from following directions.

What you say, also happens with people of the same sex. When a friend dissapoints you and has no idea of what he has done wrong.

Anyway, it seems that you and "your" woman don´t have a very good communication.

this is an intresting fourm alright! but its cool too!

You're gonna get yourself in trouble posting exactly the same thing in different threads (especially when it makes no relevant comment on the thread in question).



I reckon statements like these are probably less likely to be made by middle-aged people as they are by people with less life experience.

I take those msitakes with smile and if they happen, I try to fix them. Not that women do that on purpose, they do things by heart. And if something wrong is done there is no need to be angry at her, even if I go making some food in kitchen and I make some mistake I get nice words about how to make it proper way. And this is how it should be done.
Live and let live, man. Peace, c'est la vie.

Cheers