 What Is Wrong With Being A Virgin, Yes this is to be taken seriously but be warned :) |
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  Apr 13 2005, 10:27 PM
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Sinthetik kreatoR  Group: Members Posts: 907 Joined: 31-August 04 From: CA, USA Member No.: 968  |
OH yeah I brought this topic here now ><!
To start off i would like to say i am not a virgin. I havent been for some time, but i would like to see what your thoughts are on this. Society seems to look down upon them. anyone who hasnt slept with others for sexual pleasures is seemingly put down for some reason. that many are forced to lie about their situation just because they feel they need to. how sad is this? The practicality of it is that some ppl want to save themselves for that special person and i see nothing wrong with that. why is it that it for some reason matters how many ppl you have done it with? I find that to be sick and degrading..but what are your thoughts? and before you even ask.. i have had lots of that kinda of stuff so erm yeah.. and i am very sexually open so dont fear of just plaing being blunt and asking about it This topic is about virgins only so.. lets try to keep the suggestions and comments surrouding them.. the non-virgin topic will be made soon and I don't wish to offend anyone. I just like talking and finding out about experiences. What made you want to even wait.. how did you know the person you wanted to give it to?.. I openly admit I am not a virgin.. but the person who I gave my virginity to.. though today i wish i had saved it. I am not angry at the choice I made because I lost my virginity out of love This post has been edited by millertime: Apr 13 2005, 10:49 PM |
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Apr 13 2005, 10:37 PM
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Super Member Group: Members Posts: 224 Joined: 22-February 05 Member No.: 3,909 |
Im not, but some or monst of my friends are, and i dont look down on them, i think its fun, and something you do when you love someone, i dont like those people that do it with a ton of people just to do it and for the fun of it, yeah maybe with a few for the fun of it, i also dont like the people that brag about it, i hardly ever talk about it, even very few people know about me not being a virgin, but not anymore all trap17 and many more know now haha. I dont care. but yeah.
Well now to answer some questions. i lost my virginity to a person that i love and that i am still going out with, met her at school but we didnt do it till after 8 or so months of going out. |
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Apr 13 2005, 10:52 PM
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Member [Level 1] Group: Members Posts: 52 Joined: 16-February 05 From: Utah Member No.: 3,787 |
I would be a virigin, then again, I'm not really of that "age" to not be a virgin. Personally, sex is something that should be done inside of marriage, if you truly love someone... you wouldn't force them to have sex with you before.
It's something special to me... which can be fun, but at the same time is very serious. I hope to be a virgin for quite awhile longer. |
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Apr 13 2005, 10:55 PM
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Moderator Group: Members Posts: 2,325 Joined: 8-March 05 From: Mawson, Antarctica Member No.: 4,254 |
<moderator>Okay, try to keep this thread as unsexually explicit as possible. If any user reports this post saying that it's making them feel uncomfortable, I will have to shut it down immediately. Thank you
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Apr 13 2005, 11:00 PM
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Sinthetik kreatoR Group: Members Posts: 907 Joined: 31-August 04 From: CA, USA Member No.: 968 |
QUOTE(snlildude87 @ Apr 13 2005, 02:55 PM) <moderator>Okay, try to keep this thread as unsexually explicit as possible. If any user reports this post saying that it's making them feel uncomfortable, I will have to shut it down immediately. Thank you </moderator> No problem man I understand.
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Apr 14 2005, 01:22 AM
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Advanced Member Group: Members Posts: 143 Joined: 29-March 05 From: Canada Eh Member No.: 5,007 |
Society puts down virgins? Well, I'm still in school, so that could have something to do with this, but at my school you get put down if you're NOT a virgin!
 I'm in 10th year... And a virgin! 
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Apr 14 2005, 03:35 AM
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Super Member Group: Members Posts: 463 Joined: 8-November 04 Member No.: 2,186 |
wish people wouldn't make such a big deal about the whole thing. Maybe they should start making a bigger deal about having safe sex, seems like all std's are on the rise.
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Apr 14 2005, 03:41 AM
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Super Member Group: Members Posts: 242 Joined: 27-December 04 Member No.: 2,960 |
Non-virgin...haven't been for a few years. Whatever, I try to avoid the drama of those situations. I have some friends that are virgins and some that aren't--it's not like they're competing or anything. I'm in love, so I guess I really have no reason to wait, ya know? We use protection and the whatnot to make sure there are no little Cavemen running around. We're responsible kids
 I agree that sex isn't something that should be taken lightly...the first time is always a huge moment in everyone's life. If you just take the time to think about what you're doing and don't act on impulse, there's nothing wrong with what you decide to do. I respect anyone's decision either way. |
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Apr 14 2005, 03:41 AM
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woo im a virgin for the very first time
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