Here is the basic wind down taken from my livejournal

"...Oh well that is how it goes in my life. Other then that, my two "friends" who should have my back are being total *BLEEP*es. Scott is mad at me for wanting him to cover me FOR THE FIRST *BLEEP*ING TIME I HAVE EVER ASKED HIM FOR *BLEEP*. I was there when he broke up with Dani, when no one else wanted to be his friend I was there, when people purposely dismissed him for parties and crap I invited myself so that he had an excuse to be invited, I was there when his dad died, I was the only one who went to his birthday party, I was there when he tried to commit suicide, I was there after and felt that no one would accept him again. SO after all that, he decides that I just ask him to simply lie to my mom so that she doesn't expect me home that night so I can actually sleep and not wake up to my mom trying to hit me and yank me out of bed by my hair!!! (I have calculated that I have gotten 8 hours total of sleep in the past 4 days)
But he is mad at me. So *BLEEP* him!. *BLEEP* his stupid ass *BLEEP* and everything I have ever done for him.

Then there is Dan. *BLEEP* him too. At a WWE PPV, New Years Revolution, his brother lost $40. Now with these people in the house
me
Farrika
Dan
Mike (Dan's brother the one who lost the $$$)
Dawn (Mike's wife who Dan didn't like until she had a kid and now Dan is an uncle )
Berdo (short for Roberto)
Nelson (who I met for the first time and now doesn't even look at me around school)

Dan decides it was Farrika who stole the $$$ just because of the way she looks. EVEN THOUGH WE WEREN'T IN THE HOUSE FOR 85% OF THE *BLEEP*ING PPV BECAUSE WE WERE ARGUING OUTSIDE. I SAW ONE GOD DAMN MATCH WHILE FARRIKA WAS IN THE *BLEEP*ING KITCHEN READING BECAUSE WE FINALLY MADE UP AND SHE JUST WANTED TO READ. Somehow she was able to sneak into the living room without any of us seeing her, get Mikes wallet from under his fat *BLEEP*ing ass, steal the $40 and then sneak back while the entire 1 match that I did see of the night went out.
Total bullshit and I see no reason why I should *BLEEP*ing feel that Dan is a friend anymore because he wouldn't put up with that *BLEEP* if I said that about his gf. I mean, hell Farrika does steal, but I would know when she did because with $40 she would only buy one thing and well.. she didn't.. plus usually she tells me when she does so *BLEEP*ing hell. So I know she didn't because I had to buy food and stuff the next day. So *BLEEP* Dan too..."

So what should I do with these two people? Totally ignore them from now on because even though it might not seem "matiure" they haven't shown any interest in telling me that I have the right to defend myself agaisnt their wanting to *BLEEP* with me and some how they are supposed to be my friends.

I'm no expert in this field I dont even claim to be one but I think that the one important question you need to ask yourself is Do you still want to be their friends? now I know this may seem obviouse, and another thing I dont personally think Ignoring them will do any good but thats just me.

Dont get me wrong i'm not trying to say what they did was alright I think it sucks, but unfortunatly the decision lays with you, however I will say this I would not blame you if you never wanted to see them again but, If you do choose that root make sure it is one you will not regret in the future.

I hope my simple advice has helped you, sorry for not being more helpful But I think there is unfortunatly no 'quick fix' solution to your problem.

I do know that if it was my however I would 'have shot' of them, If you dont understand that term it means i would leave tham to get on with their own lives and move on. but thats just me.

in my 20 years of life i have had so many friends betray me. and i really dont care anymore. but whrn your best friend from early childhood betrays you it is a heartbreaker. but do you really want to be their friends after what they did?

And what i usually do is something i like to call revenge. but i wont tell you what i do

wow... that's so evil... you have to think of a way to get back at them

when a friend betrays you the best thing to do is just leave them be there is no room for betrayal in friendship its just not how true friendship works life is too short to stay in relationships regardless what kind of relationship if its not a benificial one.

personally, I don't have the ability to forgive betrayal, so I just take ME time, and I find those who have betrayed me have become busy, or too self absorbed to continue ruining my life:) It works. Ignore them. They will go away.

This is pretty bad here bloke,what they did to you cannot be justified in any manner.Getting back at them will be easy acording to me,you say that you have been throught them through thick and thin,so surely you'll know lots of stuff about them that others wont,capitalize on that and reduce their socisl image to DUST.If you are still not satisfied,thenI suggest that you comepletely ruin their socialcontacts by spreading allkida of slander against them,be it true or false.Take the mistake as your own and return the $40,but make sure that they too pay for something that they havnt done,like, break a window and plant evidence that they did it or something like that.If necessary,screw around with their personal lives by wrecking relationships or something.If all of the above is too evil for you,then just do one of the abive,satisfaction is guranteed
Cheers
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I had been there and its just horrible because you feel like..WTF and that friends dont seem to care about you thats why they judge you the way they do but i think those people should be ignored...just like a did ignored couple of people just because they just dont deserve to be around me im a good person and they're not so i should i keep them as friends? i want real friends and reals friends are not just anywhere im not saying u gotta look for a real friend....but a real friend could be your cousin or even your GF now u dont need to have 50 friends to be popular or tu have fun....all you need is 1....to advice you protect you and have fun with you

Thats what i think about friends...now i know everyone has different opinions...but this is just my opinion

I don't think the answer is to "get back at them" because the only thing that will cause is a mini-war. If people just got back at one another for every thing someone did, then it would just never stop till something really horribly happened. I agree with what people say about ignoring them and just leaving them alone. Because if you want to really just end it, then that would be the best way. Personally I would kind of want to know why such things went down if it happened to me but sometimes that just can't happen. So simply try to walk away from them. You can't really do much else.

What I'm trying to say overrall is don't seek out revenge because that will only make things worse. The best thign to do is just leave it be and walk away from it. Some people think that this is just a way to run away from your problems, but to me its a way to solve it. I'm sorry that things like this happened, and betrayel is probably the worst that could happen between two friends.