does any one have the complete meaning abt that? the main thing that i want to know is :
- how can i know i really love on a gal
- how can i know a gal really love me.

any one have any idea?
J

The answer to the first question is easy. You simply know when you love somebody... you may lie but you do know wether you feel love or jus desire for another person.

The second is more difficult. You have to trust in the other person. You may mistake but it´s a risk that comes with love. Love would be less exciting without any surprise, I guess.

ok. lets discuss abt the later one. i think if we completely trust on a person, that will kill u. because the gal are lier. they are the ones that completely use the love as a weapon to flight the man. also, the gal are perfect pretender and the guy can't know wht the gal's mind. may be there are some techinque or ways that i don't know. can u point me some?
J

this may be true in some circumstances, but not in all, thats what you gotta remember.

complete trust can prove to be a wrong decision, but then having someone who you can completely trust and who wont let u down when u need it is the important person.

this aint always true, sometimes you can just know someone so well that you know what they r thinkin and how they r feelin.

now to answer your questions:
you know when ur in love, you jus do

you cant. it just depends on how much u believe it.

hope that helps

This post has been edited by sandeep89: Apr 5 2006, 07:36 PM

Girls do not seek out boyfriends for the sinful pleasure of breaking their hearts. That's not the feminine nature, that's the sociopathic tendency. Girls want love just as much as you do (assuming you both have the same outlook on love—if not, mutual "love" is hard to determine). The point here is, girls do not intend to become "the perfect pretenders." Rather, I have found that girls are more keen to open up to reveal their true personalities quicker than boys are. As far as she is concerned, she may believe that boys are truly "the perfect pretenders." It's all a matter of perspective.

As for knowing what's on a girl's mind, it is often difficult for men to apprehend their thoughts precisely. Men and women can have very different though processes. The best one can do sometimes is to pay close attention to your girlfriend. Try to relate to them on as many levels as possible.

Resolving whether or not you're loved by someone is not easily done. I, being obscenely analytic of everyone around me, compare how I interact with someone to how they interact with me. If we act similarly towards each other, chances are any emotions I have directed towards that person may also be shared by that person for me. Obviously, you can tell if she doesn't like you by whether or not she seems to be making a conscious effort to avoid you, or attempts at talking to her wind up with her giving laconic responses such as "Yeah" or "Ok." When there is mutual love, the both of you won't feel any sort of aversion to each other at all.

This may seem like a radical idea, but if you're wondering what she's thinking or feeling *ask her*. Most women are flattered when you take enough interest in them to inquire how they're doing. Yes, there's a subset of women who either think that men should just innately "know" somehow, or who just like manipulating men, but most women are fairly reasonable. If you're interested in developing a real relationship, the communication's going to be the most crucial part. Also, just as a hint, women *hate* to be stereotyped, especially along gendered lines -- reconsider your point of view, or if you can't then it's probably best not to share it.

Love is all.

The people can't live without love.

If u think LOVE IS ALL, u r nothing

If u can't live without love, u r useless

Jaylin:
Easy there. We should not be insulting people. Here is what perfect love is. It is uncodnitional. It isn't shelfish, it isn't prideful. It is self-sacrifice. It is something you will be willing to do anything for. What is a potrait of perfect love? I can give it to you in one simple story. I will give you two examples. There was a father and he took his son out for a walk one day. They were walking in some mountains on a trail. However, a bear lunged out of a bush toward them. It grabbed the boy, and started to drag him away. The father grabbed his son and beating on the bear ggot it to let go. He told his son to run, which he did. Later that day, the authorities found the dad. He sacrificed himself for his son. That is the potrait of perfect, unconditional love. Is the story true? Yes. A parellel it may be, Jesus saw His childrensuffering and dying down here. What did He do? He came down here, and died for all of us. for you, for me. And he did it knowing what was going to happen to him. It was an act that rejected all selfishness and pride. There is the perfect axample of love. In a single story. Provided by a single man. That is, Jesus the Christ.