A close friend of mine is very liberal and she sleeps with a different guy every week and continously sleeps with a few of them steadily. She's also very open about it and let's her friends know. This dosen't bother me much because shes a normal person otherwise and is great to talk to. But alot of people we know especially other girls call her a slut behind her back and constantly make fun of her. Is it really that bad to be open about sexuality, are social laws so unforgiving. I just want to know what some of you would think of her, and be realistic, like you know some of the guys who've she slept with and if you would act any different.

I wouldn't use the term "slut" for her, I would use B****.Why would she want to sleep with more than one guy? with all my nowloge of a shrink I can tell you she's bored with her life.One guy would be enough.If she wants more than that then maybe she should change carrers.She should stop this before It get's out of hand.

Let's say she get's preguant,With all the guy's she's been sleeping with It makes It hard to know who's the kids father. I surely would never wana get married to her.I'm sure every guy wouldn't wana love and strart a family with her knowing she sleeps or slept with many guys.

All in all I think she should sit down and consontrate on getting a life because like I said before,If she wants to sleep around with guys then the best to do is go to the streets.

In my humble opinion, she is asking for trouble of the pregnancy or STD variety, never mind the consequences of the attitudes which the other friends are calling her names, etc.
Hopefully she finds a way out of the current situation.
As they say in the movies: " She has issues."

IMO, its okay to flirt with many if she's single. But to sleep with a different person could be asking for trouble (regardless if what gender you are). As many others said, consider the effects of sex related diseases such as STD, AIDs, and so forth. Pregnancy is also another issue in the females case.

well, society wants us to think that way. i guess the reason why she's open about it is because she feels that she is free by doing that. we have no control over that, and we cannot force her to stop doing what she feels could make her feel at her best. but like the previous post, it's not good health wise. it gets to the point that what she's doing wouldn't be good for her and her health. try guiding her and giving her some advice. nevermind the people who are teasing her. they are the ones who what i call "evil", those that step on people even at their lows. it's good that she has a friend that is concerned. help her out.

i have the same problem ok my freind sleep with men everday so i talk talk her ,i said it not health to have sex ever time so you should stop you might have hiv and cannot have sex no more .After few day she stop so you should talk to her ok or make sure she health.

If she's the legal age to consent, it's entirely her own business if she wants to sleep around. She's more than likely aware of these people making fun of her, and apparently it must not bother her too much. If it's a sexual addiction that you think could get out of hand, sit her down and talk with her. There are many serious side-effects that could result from this particular life-style, including social, physical, and mental problems. I personally, do not approve of sleeping around, but it's her own life she's messing up. Just be sure she knows the results.

You people are all wrong. Whe isn't doing it because she wants to be "free", or because this person is "bored with their life". This is a classic example of a girl with low self esteem issues.

She has to sleep around to proove to others and herself that she is attractive and can get guys to notice her. All though what she is doing is getting attention from the guys, it does not mean it is healthy attention.

It's like when a child tries to get the attention of the parents by acting out and doing bad things. The child does the bad things to get attention even if it is negative attention.

In fact, this could also be one reason why she is sleeping aorund. It could be that something is wrong in the home and she is not feeling needed or loved. So she looks for that elsewhere. In other words, she looks for the missing elements in her life by attracting guys who provide "temporary" or "fake" love.

These type of people cannot change unless they fix the root cause of their problem. It is probably a complex issue and should be dealt with in more detail and with more effort than can be had over the internet.

One quesetion though, is she hot and where can i get some? LOL

It doesnt matter how many guys/girls you sleep with, once you make that leap to sex you create risks whether its your first, fifth, 10th, or 100th time having sex. So for everyone saying, you shouldn't sleep around you will get an STD, chances are...the STD anyone recieves will be one from the first person they sleep with, or a few after. Sure if you sleep around more, the risk is greater, but the risk is ALWAYS there.

I've personally been givin such a hard time for the lifestyle of sleeping around, which i hardly do now. But its like i will say something, and someone, will some how in their mind connect it with me sleeping around, and tell me "well you slept around". And it kind of sucks, because i know i did, and i know i cheated but its all in my PAST, and i regret some of the choices i made, but they have been made, and now i have to choose to just stay forward in my life.

I don't look down upon anyone who sleeps around. I wish they wouldn't only for their safety but other than that, its their life and as long as they are trying to be as safe as possible let them do whatever makes them fulfilled.