I have submitted my website atleast 3 months ago to google , but it never appears in google... it has been included in Yahoo , MSn and some others..in msn it has many many pages..but it never included in google..i evern have added sitemap to on google , ... i can see in my hosting cpanel that google bot visits everyday but even then , it is never in google..atleast 3 months passed..does some one has any suggestions for it ?
my website link is
http://www.pakdir.com

I guess it takes a while. I submitted mine before and it was probably a month after I submitted taht it actually appeared first in rank. Just forget about it and just keep adding contents to your site and exchange links with others.

Yes, it takes longer for Google to actually add a website to them. Well, it can take over a year for them to add you (slow, aren't they?), but they make sure you don't spam and all that. If you have a long/good article, and great websites linking to you, you won't only be added to Google, you will be in the top ranks. Hopefully, that helped you. Maybe you didn't even get it, but the answer to your question is Google takes longer. They always had.

By the way, nice professional websites. But you have some typos you could fix.

Yes, nobody know how google really works so if you have submitted your website properly it should appear one of these days, but just don´t obsess with that idea and follow with your site´s improves. I guess thera are millions of pages being submitted every day and it´s a slow process for the robots to take all that information and index it.

I've never even submitted my site to google, just mentioned if on this forum a few time asking for help and now google is listing it. A good step was probably posting that link up there.

you need to swap links with other websites and put a link to your website in several dircetories. the search engines "crawl" the net following every link in a webpage, when they find a link to a new website they index it.

I was lucky that my site made it to Google, but after I changed my domain, it went bye-bye for around a month now. Before typing Mesivta of Roslyn into Google brought up my site as the first result, but now, after changing it to an addon domain, it doesn't come up. Oh well.

Thats about right, you submit it to a popular online forum which google has already, then when it crawls that website, it will find your link and eventually add it, it also depends on the content of your website sometimes. Just don't think about it, it goes a lot faster if you forget.

Oh, I ws just thinking, add your URI to your signature, that way you have two reasons to post, one is for hosting credits, the other is for google rank, and searchengin inclussion.