Sexual Relationship With Aunt In Law

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This post has been edited by jameswp: Aug 4 2008, 03:52 PM

you need to go here -----> http://www.jerryspringertv.com/be_a_guest/be_a_guest.php so they can help you out. and hey, you can pay reverend shnorr $100 to marry you. good luck with creating little children who are also your cousins...

I am with anwii, go see jerry and then go seek some professional help or you two get a divorce and ruin everyone's lives because you two can't keep your hormones in check.

in law not blood

anyone who is married and wants to cheat on their partner is the scum of the earth in my opinion. says a lot about morals and values and the sensitivity of others not to meantion the sacredness of marriage.

in law out of law. same thing funnyman. if you were to have any children with your aunt, those same children would be your counsins

so, i gave you some good advice. i will hopefully be seeing you on the show soon

In all seriousness, you both are pretty messed up. And I'm trying to speak this out of all honesty without being a real jerk, but that's just messed up.

In one post, I interpreted your intentions as that you both have already given up on your marriage and are willing to step it up with each other. If that's not wrong, I don't know what is.

Don't even get me started about kids. Apparently you both don't give a rat's *bottom* about either spouse... so I'm going to assume that custody will go to your spouses.

Why can't people keep themselves in check? I understand that we're all human. I also understand that things happen. But just the fact that you both are ready to sacrifice everything you have just to pursue a sexual relationship with someone else is something else.

If you were single, I personally wouldn't care. It's not exactly kosher in my mind, but whatever. But in your predicament, you'd be retarded to throw away your marriage for something like this.

This post has been edited by rayzoredge: Jul 28 2008, 09:09 PM

Ok, you didn't really go into detail. At first glance of your message, I would suppose that you are attracted to each other because of physical attraction or the challenge of forbidden love, to which I would respond, stop right now. Don't ruin the lives of innocent people (your spouses and children if you have any). Be rational about it and exercise self-control, or go and visit a counsellor.

However, if there are more complications to the attraction i.e. your current marriages have soured and you find solace in each other, then the next step would logically be that both of you get a divorce with your spouses and you can be together without problems of infidelity or having cousins for children. I don't wish to come across as someone who encourages the breaking up of marriages, but I understand that when it comes to love, the situation can be rather unpredictable. ven so, you need to involve your spouses in making the decision. Marriage isn't play and rightly, you can't just abandon a marriage when you find someone better.

Bear in mind that this is a very serious issue with major consequences, which will be magnified if you have children. Please deal with it wisely.

This post has been edited by bishoujo: Jul 29 2008, 05:25 AM

I think we're having problems defining what this "next step" is. As far as I understand it, the two of you are sexually attracted to each other. Now, what I do not understand is what is your idea of the next step. Do you mean you want to have sex with her? Or do you mean you want to spend the rest of your life with her?

Either way, if you are, indeed, keen on pushing this through, you have, the way I see it, only one option available to you: divorce your respective spouses and marry each other.

Of course, I am speaking callously, without regard to the emotions of the other parties involved. I do feel that it would be redundant for me to say how regretful your actions might be, how you need to exercise self-control, how it will ruin the lives of your respective families or how redundant I am right now.

Had circumstances been different, like if you were both single, I'm sure there is nothing (legally) wrong with having a relationship with your aunt-in-law. It does seem strange, though, a kinda unspoken taboo in society... like homosexuality, for instance

"Self control" is key. the fact that you came here shows that you already know it's wrong. Be strong and don't give in to temptation. Have your conscience help you.

Thanks to those of you who were able to give guidence. We are both in marriages that are not very happy. I myself have been on the other half of cheating, being cheated on in the past by my spouse. About myself and the aunt... We have had an attraction for a while nwo but it has not been brought up amongst one another until recently. We have not had sex . ..