 Relationships Are Stressful, Too many things to worry about |
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 Dec 1 2005, 12:27 AM
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{([Mod])}  Group: Members Posts: 710 Joined: 30-October 04 From: Texas Member No.: 2,058  |
When you're going out with someone, does your partner mind if you hug the opposite sex? I feel constrained.. my girlfriend was angry with me earlier because I hugged one of my great friends who's been there for me since I moved to Texas, and who just happens to be a girl. I have to think about what I'm doing, what's going to make her angry, what to do right, wrong, and everything inbetween. I don't know what she wants.. it's all stressful.
Do you ever feel stressed by your relationships? |
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Dec 1 2005, 05:28 AM
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Privileged Member Group: [HOSTED] Posts: 937 Joined: 14-April 05 From: West Chester, PA Member No.: 5,636 |
If you feel constrained or normally stressful in a relationship then you arent with the right person. A relationship should be easy and natural. If you have to really think what to do it isnt the right person. Once you find the right person you will know because all those things above just dont happen and its more like being with your best friend.
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Dec 1 2005, 07:50 AM
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Premium Member Group: Members Posts: 165 Joined: 12-September 05 Member No.: 11,777 |
relationship should make you feel good, when you have a problem you have someone to talk to about it, but in you case it stresses you and gives you problem instead.... simple solution.. end it! if things makes you feel bad y stick into it.. is it worth the trouble...
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Dec 1 2005, 08:22 AM
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Super Member Group: [HOSTED] Posts: 496 Joined: 15-March 05 Member No.: 4,538 |
Yeah relationships are a sort of thing that you can't live without, but they can be preety stressful at times. But there are also many good things about them, since we cannot live entirely alone all the time because we get depressed and stuff...
Sometimes things in this life are just inevitable but usually they bring pleasure AND pain so we can live somehow with them  Pure joy is impossible in this material world...thats just he way it is |
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Jan 3 2006, 10:42 PM
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Newbie [Level 2] Group: Members Posts: 34 Joined: 29-December 05 Member No.: 16,316 |
i dont think mine would. if they know that i've known the person for years and we're just friends, then there why would there be any problem? me and my friends hug all the time, both guys and girls, just because we're like that. if i go out with someone, he cant expect me to automatically quit hugging my guy friends because they're just friends so he has nothing to worry about
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Jan 21 2006, 09:36 PM
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Newbie [Level 1] Group: Members Posts: 18 Joined: 21-January 06 Member No.: 17,417 |
QUOTE(rejected @ Nov 30 2005, 08:27 PM) When you're going out with someone, does your partner mind if you hug the opposite sex? I feel constrained.. my girlfriend was angry with me earlier because I hugged one of my great friends who's been there for me since I moved to Texas, and who just happens to be a girl. I have to think about what I'm doing, what's going to make her angry, what to do right, wrong, and everything inbetween. I don't know what she wants.. it's all stressful. Do you ever feel stressed by your relationships?  I am stressed by relationships but not for these reasons. This person is controlling you. If you have to think about what you are doing all the time, then you are not being yourself. Think about what it will be like to not be yourself for the rest of your life. To me it is not worth it. On the other hand, it could be insecurity and if it were me I would ask if there was anything I could do to make her more comfortable. It could be she has baggage from a previous relationship (still not fair to you) or that she thinks you are the greatest thing since sliced bread and she's afraid everyone else will think so too. At any rate, if she is not willing to discuss it, that would be the end for me. Not worth it if she's not willing to change. |
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Jan 22 2006, 01:57 AM
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Privileged Member Group: Members Posts: 570 Joined: 5-July 05 From: Ballarat Member No.: 9,042 |
Ask yourselfwhy?, why am i stressed, why does she stree? If she just so afraid of losing you, then she feels your relationship is not strong enough.
Maybe if you go out long enough she may feel more comfortable, but to me at the moment sounds like your in a no where no friends relationship. |
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Dec 27 2007, 04:17 AM
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Trap Double Mocha Member Group: Members Posts: 2,360 Joined: 21-September 07 Member No.: 50,369 |
Relationships
Relationships Are Stressful My questions is I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years but now everything is boring. -Marie Michel |
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