Well yeah, I feel a little weird asking help here...
But I've read other topics and maybe you can help me with an advice or two.

Well my problem is ... a girl. I mean, she's not the problem - I am. I like her for like 2 years now. And I know stuff about her ex b-friends etc. We are good friends and yea, she knows I like her but I'm kinda afraid and don't really know how to show her that...you know. I mean, I've been with two girls since I like her but...I just broke up with them because I didn't really have any feelings against them. I even catch myself dreaming about her more and more. And yea, we go out to movies for a walks and stuff but nothing more.
The dumbest thing is that I am more than sure she likes me as a friend - just a friend. She's year older than me though I don't think it's a problem as we go in same class...

Well yea, shortened - I like her for a long long time and keep thinking about her (I'm a bad person about the girlfriend thing), and I think she doesn't like me that way and yea..I don't know what to do..

Hope there's an advice for me out there..


Thanks

if you really like that girl, you should try to share your feelings with her
try to be close to her when you see her, sit close to her if you get the chance
when you go for a walk with her, hold her hand the whole way, if she allows it, you might consider that as a good point
if you go to the movies, try to put your arm around her so that she leans a bit more towards you
give her a good hug when you are about to leave (at the end of the time you spend with her, like going to movies)

then you will see if she likes you more then a friend, if you really have the guts to do something more
give her a kiss on the cheeck, not mouth yet
start small and end big ^^

ow yea if she feels sad, don't resist to go to her and try to make her feel more comfortable
ask whats happening and listen what she says, surely dont disturb her when she's talking
most girls feel more comfortable after a good talk and a hug

these are some points i did before and it went all fine
now i hope they might help you

don't forget ==> life is taking risks, if you don't take a risk, you'll never know what might happen

Yea, true, I mean, I do give and get hugs
But still something bothers me..
I mean, I've done everything you said before..many times.
But when I'm with her I get so... One her smile makes my day brighter...she makes me happy when she's just around.
Feels weird..
Well... I should get more .. cooler .. you know, like attitude?
I don't really know..I mean, how about showing some attention like giving her flowers or something...you know..

if she feels comfortable with the person you are now, don't even attempt to change ur behavior
the chance that she might start to act different then is seriously big, like not feeling so comfortable anymore with your cool attitude, just remain your own self

if you want to give her a flower, be sure you get her a flower that she likes
also i bet she wouldn't like it if you give it to her in front of all her friends
you could also give her a teddy, since girls like soft teddy bears, it would make you score good man
she will hold it in sad times and cuddle it, it will make her remember you
chocolats also score high, but be carefull that she isnt looking for her weight ^^ in that period

lets say, flowers & teddy bears will score the best, but still don't forget to give hugs
still it's your decision man what you will do all we can do is give you hints and advice

Lol, thanks..
Im confused because... She's different..better.
Bah, I feel weird. Never felt this way for a girl :S
Ok, well, I'm going out with her on Friday

Hey man, ive been in a similar situation except the girl knew i liked her before we became friends, it never affected our friendship as we are close friends and have been for years. My advice is a little different from whats above, im less of a material person, sure on valentines day and the like i used to give her a card and some flowers and such but i think telling her your feelings is a lot better than giving her gifts. My advice is basically just talk to her, you culd do it by phone, not on IM or by text though! Just talk to her casually and then say something like "you know, i love talking to you, it really makes my day" and then carry it on from there to kind of flatter her a little, tell her truly how you feel, tell her abut her smile making your day and then just finish it off by telling her that you hope it wont make any difference and i wouldnt ask her out right then id let it wait a while so it doesnt seem like you said all of that to "soften her up" as it were. And then see how she reacts, who knows?

I know one thing though it wnt affect your friendship in any negative way. Like i said ive been in a similar situation and ive given her roses and love poems and the lot but it has never once affected our relationship...nt untill she got a boyfriend. He wasnt too keen on the idea



No, no, no, no, no!!!!! Although on the TV it seems the "cool" guy gets the girl, believe me, it isnt true! Girls like funny and honest guys, they really dnt like guys with big egos and who think theyre "cool". the films, they lie! Just be yourself as already said! My thoughts are that you should never change for anyone but yourself and if this girl likes you as a friend as you are now then she obviously likes your personality just as you are so work with that!

Good Luck!

the feelings u're having are true love feelings, this is what u call love on first sight normally
the more your going to be with her, the more powerfull those feelings will get
when your out with her on friday, try to ask her some stuff you'd like to know
if you wanna know how she feels about you, try to ask it on a way that the main question aint so visible
you know, like asking it on a totally different way, but don't choose the bad way ^^
also just don't dissappoint her on any possible way, try to figure out what she doesn't like and modify ur behavior to it
don't change ur behavior too much, else she's gonna figure it out and she'll surely tell ya

if you'd like to give her something, i guess friday is ur moment ^^
impress her with something she likes, and give her the best hug / kiss u ever gave to her on friday
don't let her go for some time , the closer she's gonna be to you, the better

have fun & good luck

Aww, thanks guys

Oh, and shadow, bout 'cool' thing, I didn't mean ego..I meant... like loosen up, because I'm always afraid to like...tell or do stuff.. like MORE. I'm just always afraid to ruin our friendship. I know it wouldn't but.. I still have this weird feeling..

Maybe somewhere deep you really like that feeling you have for her right now. You like her the way you think of her, and probably feel that you don't want to change that by coming out fully the way you feel to her. Sometimes, people just like that they have somebody they can dream of, and don't like to cha