Brianaj08...I have the same problem as you, he seems like a two-timer...I know exactly how you feel...I can't forget all the routine things we did during the weekday and weekend...But we have to be strong ok...Don't feel bad about this...Think positively, you have not married him yet...Unless you discover it before the marriage and it is less than one year...These are all wat I told myself...I need to be strong again...It is definitely his lost to do this...

-reply by Char

A coming break up
Dealing With A Long Term Relationship Break Up

Nothing is worst than a relationship which involve wife and baby...There is this woman called me one day saying that she is my bf wife and they have a baby on the way...But she knows the guy don't love him anymore and she is willing to let go this relationship...When I confront with him he denied eveyrthing and says that this is a harassment to him...He has did nothing wrong and he has no relationship with this regular friend of him...I trusted him so much and try to ignore this woman who had never call after that...This is going to be our 3rd month of relationship, there is a lot of changes in him which remind me of what she told...Besides the less message, less call, always claiming he is busy at work, he switches his mobile number...But, when we were together, he seems the guy I know from the start, caring, loving, gentleman, and still treat me good. I love him...A lot a lot...And I am very depress and sad to accept the fact that he is hiding something behide...I still pretended to be happy with him because I realize that I can't accept the fact to break up with him...I really need help...

-question by Saddi

Dealing with a relationship being over
Dealing With A Long Term Relationship Break Up

I was in a relationship for three years, my girlfriend just ask me to move out. For a long time I really didn't care if that had happened , but when she told me she needed some space, I had a real change of heart I wanted to try again and she didn't. It is hard for me because she has an autistic son whom I love like my own son, its like she has to get over one person and I have to get over two, I don't know what to do all I want to do is be with her, and I think she has started seeing an ex boyfriend already , I wasnt even done moving out before that had happened she says their just friends, but I don't believe her, the last few months she has been lying alot, when we lived together and she went out she ignored my calls and wouldn't respect me and leave me worrying all night, she has contacted me every day since we split except for the weekend. What should I do I really love her and her son

-reply by mattht6

Replying to RockinTheCasbahwell you know what they say, time heals all wounds. I'm not going to lie to you, it's going to hurt real bad for awhile. I wsa dating this girl for 3 years and we had a baby 7 months ago. Well about the last year of the relationship things started going bad. After the baby was born she grew more distant from me, and about 2 months ago she told me she was done. And she won't let me see my daughter. She told me my daughter loves her new bf. I wish she would have just slapped me in the face. But anyway, it will get better. Try to keep yourself busy. I hope this helps you. I know what your going through, I'll pray for you.

-reply by jeff

Long term break up
Dealing With A Long Term Relationship Break Up

Well I too just got dumped by my girlfirnd today we had ben going out for 2 years, lateley I have ben hanging out with my guy friends more and she thought I was "putting her on the back burrner". Also today is her birthday and I have ben saving my money (every pennie) to get her a nice gift and this moring I got yelled at because I didnt get her a card, so she got mad and broke up with me, this is about the 3rd serious breakup we have has the longest being 5 days, but I need to get over her because she keeps hurting me like this, please help me get over my 1st love

Replying to RockinTheCasbah
Replying to stephanie
I love this lil comment.. Really helps me!

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Dealing With A Long Term Relationship Break Up

Replying to iGuest

I myself just ended a 3 years relationship with my husband. I asked him to move out of my appartment and not contact me for a while coz I needed my space. Now he cannot respect my wish and calls, emails, go to my workplace. I can't take it. I wished for a clean break-up but I guess it's too hard for him. The problem is it's hard for me too and he just makes it harder on both of us.
If ever we feel tempted to call (because, apparently, we will) let's try to remember we call it break-up for a reason: it's broken and cannot be fixed.

-reply by Yaya

Dealing with a relationship being over
Dealing With A Long Term Relationship Break Up

My girlfriend of 4 years just told me it was over. It only the second day I don't know if I can deal with it. I'm hurting so bad that it feels hard to breath. It started when I mentioned to her that she was distant and I felt she was taking me for granted. She would order me around to do things for her when before she would ask nicely. She came to me a day or two later and told me she was sorry and needed a break to figure out why she was feeling anger toward me. Then a few days later she told me that it was over, she didn't wanna be in this relationship. She said she didn't wanna feel like she had to check in with me when she did something. I never said she had to though. She said we hungout so much that she never got a chance to miss me and started taking me forgranted. I love her so much. I'd drop anything for her. All I can do I can do is respect her space and hope she misses me. I was suppose to buy her engagement ring yesterday. Now I'm in so much pain that I can't even function, please help heal a broken heart...