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CarlU
post May 25 2006, 08:42 AM
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You cannot "Love" someone over the internet, not by the real definition anyway...simply because you do not know that person's traits, emotions, humor etc to it's fullest extent without seeing them face-to-face.

Another problem that arises is, when you are dating someone over the internet and have not ever seen them in person or have seen their picture, then you usually end up thinking the best of them, you just assume that the person is really attractive. Another problem with arises is that there are many people who are great chatters but it might be a totally different situation face-to-face.

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ell, most of those people that are playing those games are adolescents, which means all those hormones are acting up, even when playing online! So, I guess marrying online and all that jazz is more like a fantasy than anything; I guess it's a more advanced form of playing pretend. If that makes sense at all. They know that it will (probably) never be all it is is just pretend, so it doesn't really matter if they know the person or have seen the person or not, it's not all that serious, or I've never seen those online marriage things as too serious, I guess there might be people out there who really get into it..

Agreed.
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post May 25 2006, 08:59 AM
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I have to disagree, there are some people you can't to know really well online, and when you meet them they are really that better. However most relationships like this are from your own state/or 500kms away where you hear all about these ones from overseas which are made out to be so good.

This is where alot of people fall in the trap of looking to the internet for love etc. and losing sight of what love really is. Love is a connection bewtween two people/things and is an unbreakable link or can't be hurt easily.
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post May 25 2006, 08:40 PM
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Ah, thanks CarlU, I feel special for being quoted biggrin.gif.

Also you've got to keep in mind that when playing those online rpg's people who "fall in love" in those games don't see the actual person, they see the character. And it's pretty obvious that the characters in the game were created to be appealing to the eye, or else not as many people would want to play it. So really players get attracted to the character graphics, and combine that with what the character says, so you're mixing aspects of the game with aspects of the real person playing the game, if that makes any sense. Anyway, keeping that in mind, it's not real love.
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post May 26 2006, 01:49 PM
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it may be not a realistic love emerged on internet IMO...but if there are certain luck belong both of you,true love must be romantic very much.
however,i bless the love of this kind.
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post Jan 8 2008, 07:28 AM
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You can\\
Loving Someone On The Internet?

You can learn all about someone over the net. You can determine if you like their sense of humor or whether their values meet yours, or whether their photograph is pleasing, or whether they're intelligent enough to keep you occupied all evening long. You may REALLY enjoy their company online but there is no way you can be in love with someone you haven't touched. I just don't believe it's possible.

I met my husband through a personal ad over a newsgroup before the www existed in Orlando. We were 10,000 miles apart but we were smart enough to know that we loved what we perceived the other person to be. Turns out we were right but we could have easily been wrong.

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post Mar 4 2008, 12:26 PM
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actually it is possibile
Loving Someone On The Internet?

It happened to me, never thought is possibile, I even laughed when I was hearing story like this, but no long after that it did happened to me. I was no sure..It was lust, it was love...Felt like love, in both sides, seen the person on webcam, so it was a phisicaly atraction there for sure...I think is love, and I am gonna meet this person, I really want to know if this is REALLY possibile, but at this very moment..I think is love. I keep you updated:)

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post Apr 1 2008, 11:24 AM
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yes julia you are right, despite that I'm a stranger in this page, a frnd of mine introduced it to me and is very good to me, julia Please I wanna talk to you.

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post Aug 25 2008, 04:56 PM
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Its possible.
Loving Someone On The Internet?

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Its defiently possible, becuase I have experienced the deepest love, from someone over the internet, who I spoke too for years, and then finally met. I defiently loved him before meeting him. 100% no doubt. It is possible.
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