I wouldn't get involved if I were you. I have no room to talk as I'm pretty antisocial, but, there's this guy that I like a lot because he's so sweet but he has a girlfriend. That girlfriend told him to pierce his lip so he did. Never seen her but I hate her already for telling him to do something stupid. If I were you maybe ask about her a little and if he says that it's nothing maybe you can go a bit further then. Maybe if you can ask, I can ask. Who knows?

I think you're gonna ask him right? You just don't know how to. Here's a suggestion of what you can possibly do.

Invite him over to your house one day to do the whole letting-him-cook-for-you thing. Once he's in, casually talk to him. At one point, ask him, so how is your girlfriend doing? The best time to do this is to get it over with early on. The first five minutes of him entering your house in fact.

Now, here's the important part. Act normal No matter WHAT he says or doesnt say. Don't ask him and freeze at one place, staring at him. Don't ask him then balatantly avoid looking him in the eyes. Don't tense your shoulders when he answers stiffly that she's visiting her parents. Just simpy keep the conversation going in a normal tone of voice. PLAN what you will say next just in case you go blank at that point.

My suggestion is to be facing somewhere else when you ask that question (be it looking through the cabinets for silverware or rearranging books on your shelves). Then after you ask the Question, be ready with a continuing line of thought like "So, where did you learn to cook?"

If you want him to like you, it's easy, just have a charming and optimistic personality. Don't be too shy to talk abou any topic. Whenever he says something bad about you, treat it as a joke and laugh it off or say something equally bad about him in a humorous way (e.g. "Really? I do that? Am I cute when I do it? *grin* But I bet it's not as cute as when you pick your nose."). But later on, see if he's right. If he's right, then fix it. If he's not, then humorously tell people about the time he lied about you being fat (you must do this in front of him).

The big problem is, do you want him to like you? If he's two-timing his girlfriend, what's gonna stop him from two-timing you??

hmm.. i think you need to clarify things before you take any action. you can't let things carry on like this if he does actually have a gf. well so far it doesnt seem too extreme but things could intensify and when taht happens you have to know when to back off. it seems as though he is attracted to you, but if he really is seeing another girl its better bad. i'd hate to be his gf in this scenario. you have to think about the effect your actions have on other people too. this is not just about the two of you. good luck with it, i hope things turn out fine for the both of you ;]

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Does He Like Me?

WEll I'm in 9th grade and I like this boy.Ive know him since 5th grade he is so sweet to me.The other day he asked for my phone number and said we should hangout sometime and I really like him but I'm not sure I he likes me..But he treats me different from all hill other friends. And we have a couple claa together and whenever he can he sits by me.So could you please help me out thanks

-question by sara

Why? Im confused!
Does He Like Me?

Ok so Me and my ex have been texting alot lately and he wants to be friends with benefits. I said ok. But whenever I say I like him and I would want to start a relationship with him again he says he likes my bestfriend.

Am I just a piece of ass to him? Or does he like me? Is he trying to make me jealous?

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Does He Like Me?

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Hi I'm carlye it sounds like he dose like you but he's just shy about it.

Guys can be well different sometimes but I think that you need to talk to him ALOT more. Maybe he has a gf but dosen't like talking about it and again maybe he dosen't have a girlfriend.



Love, Carlye



-reply by carlye

You definitely have to get it out in the open. If he is still with his girlfriend you have a right to know and it shouldn't be a big deal if he is just wanting to be your friend. If he wants to be more and gets defensive when asked about his girlfriend situation..it's most likely guilt.

Well, I think that you should wait and see. You should know that the girl he is dating right now has probably no idea that he went on a "date" with another girl and she also has feelings just like you. Try to be in her position - how would you feel if your boyfriend would start to show interest in another girl? I know I would feel that great. You should also know that if he is doing that to his current girl, he'll probably do the same to you! It is a bad bargain and if you really like this guy then wait and wait until he is free and not free because of you but free because he didn't want to be with his current girl anymore! You can try with him then, because both of you who will be involved in this romance will go in it by your own will and nobody else will get hurt if you know what I mean...

Just keep away from love-triangles - just look at the movies and it is the same in real life - they usually end up BAD!