 Love Sucks; Love Is Stupid, love is stupid |
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  Aug 28 2006, 06:31 AM
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Privileged Member  Group: [HOSTED] Posts: 541 Joined: 21-August 06 From: Ziya's Heart Member No.: 28,693  |
QUOTE(God-Of-Earth @ Aug 28 2006, 01:28 AM)  Hey do you mind if i use that as a quote to my GF. Seriously though. I will never mind infact I will be honoured. Thax GOE |
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Sep 3 2006, 12:51 AM
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Member [Level 3] Group: Members Posts: 90 Joined: 26-July 06 Member No.: 27,319 |
You know, love really isn't stupid, and it definately doesn't suck. It's just the situation that's difficult. Sure, you like someone, but the situation or circumstance is what makes you think something's wrong. Just be there for her. I'd suggest that if your good friends with her that you be there for her if things are bad. Be there both in the bad and the good and if he's really that bad, she's either going to realize it or you'll be there at just the right time to pick up the pieces. Then, I'd say don't move in to fast, wait a while till you think she's over him so you're not the rebound. Just don't try to steal her from him. That will leave him ready to damage you or her not wanting to be around you because she thinks your trying to break them up when she thinks she doesn't want to and that there's nothing wrong.
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Sep 6 2006, 06:47 AM
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Privileged Member Group: Members Posts: 570 Joined: 5-July 05 From: Ballarat Member No.: 9,042 |
Really, if you sit down and have a long hard think about everything, everything sucks. Why do we have to get up and go to work everyday with only 2 days rest in between? Why do women go through the pain of child birth?
Because some people like the start to finish, child birth then caring for the child until caring no longer needed. And some people rather adopt to save from the pain but like looking after children. What you're after is a relationship that is adopted! |
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Sep 13 2006, 01:13 AM
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Newbie [Level 1] Group: Members Posts: 17 Joined: 12-September 06 Member No.: 29,817 |
Love isnt stupid. Its just a little confusing and sometimes painful. If shes got a b/f then shes off limits, but show her you know how to treat a woman better than her b/f and you may get her in the end......
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Sep 13 2006, 01:27 AM
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Newbie [Level 2] Group: Members Posts: 34 Joined: 26-October 04 Member No.: 1,952 |
If she has a B/F that doesn't eman you can't be a freind. when she has a problem with her man, you can be the shoulder for her to cry on/lean on. being a friend is better than nothing at all. Plus it keeps the slight window of oppurtunity of you and her getting together in the event something happens.
always remember, it could always be worse (refer to my thread  )
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Sep 14 2006, 01:36 AM
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Privileged Member Group: Members Posts: 570 Joined: 5-July 05 From: Ballarat Member No.: 9,042 |
There is at times a caution with becomming a friend, I once became a friends with a chick, and at the end of all the B/S i got the whole, 'Your to much like a brother...' talk. Then went found some other guy she had already been out with who is a total freak retard but hey, who am i to judge?
Good Luck again,...
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Aug 13 2007, 01:47 AM
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Advanced Member Group: Members Posts: 116 Joined: 6-August 07 Member No.: 47,650 |
You sound like an angry child with this topic name... And how your post goes makes you sound quite young. You shouldn't only focus on one girl with a boyfriend, especially if she really likes him. I'm a girl and if a guy liked me and I was conflicting with my boyfriend and the guy just jumped in for the chance, as if trying to push me and my BF apart, i'd get angry and hate the guy. Don't be obvious.
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Aug 13 2007, 04:31 AM
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Physical attraction itself is simply a primitive reaction part of every sexually reproducing animal's genetic makeup. It is in the interest of such a species to have such a reaction to the opposite sex. Companionship is another which is the second makeup of love.
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Aug 13 2007, 05:55 AM
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Member [Level 1] Group: Members Posts: 61 Joined: 12-August 07 Member No.: 48,013 |
Well I say love doesn't suck. Love is how you guys, and girls are born
 . You might think love sucks now but if you were with her then you wouldn't say that anymore but ehh thats life you win some and lose some but don't worry dude there's more fishes in the sea. There has been people that don't treat others the same, but if thats her choice then theres nothing you can do except try to get her to love u as much as u can but if she is into her boyfriend mistreating her then thats her lose. You need to bounce back up  and find another girl, or maybe you could find her twin haha. who knows.
This post has been edited by Midori: Aug 13 2007, 05:55 AM |
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