yes Drop her or just change your phone numbers,Hang up on her or make her dislike you by calling her names or something i had a girl like that i just made her hate me but now we are mates so its all good

Can i just ask how this came about?

I can understand people falling in love and all etc., how do you manage to make a chick hate you the, all of the sudden turn around and you're both mates. Somethings a miss here lol.

That is called a preconception. You hate eachother because you haven't look further than your own preconception about him/her. That way you only see the part on the outside how you want to see it, but not how the person really is. When you actually take the time to get to know eachother, you will find out that what you thought about the other and what the other person thought about you, is wrong. You get to know eachother and eventually the respect for eachother will just come and grow. SO thats basically why people should try to stop now with preconceptions, because the change you meet a great person will only improve that way.

I agree with Sweety, sit down and talk with her. ether way you cant lose , if you talk to her she'll kinow how you feel ,and if you tell her how you feel she might see the way you see her, and you just might find out why she is being the way she is being.

Gotta be careful though, if she really is a stalker, sitting down and telling her it's over might push her over the edge and make her do something drastic, lol.

Sometimes, like for this case...you just need to drop her. I doubt that being nice, and pushing her away slowly will get rid of her , and she may just take you pushing her away as you pushing her away because you like her. If she is seriously calling you so much, you need to put your foot down. You need to live your life, she needs to find her own.

ahahahah tell her you have a girlfriend! J/K but yeah tell her off nicely. Just be like I'm not interested and I'm sorry, its not you..It's me blah blah just be totally honest and really she's asking for her heart to get broken if she stalks like crazy.

Look, this goes for almost any situation, especially if it has gone this far. Give her an earfull. You don't have to be mean, but let her know where you stand and where the line is that should not be crossed. Sounds like she crossed the line a time ago. Believe me it will ease your pain and make her a better person for the next guy.

i agree with this one. if she really bothers you at such a constant rate, let her come to you and talk to her. properly of course. you should shout at her for bugging you, you might hurt her feelings. tell her that what she's doing doesn't do good to both of you. obviously because she's wasting a lot of time, which she could use for more important stuff. and by bugging you, you won't be able to work or do your stuff properly.

if she confesses her feelings towards you (thus the reason she kept on bugging you), tell her properly that you're already seeing someone if you're really seeing someone, or if not, tell her that you're not the right person for her, and that she'd be better off with other guys, and tell her that you won't be able to reciprocate the same amount of feelings that she gives you, and that in a relationship, a couple almost always work things out. tell her that it won't work between the two of you and she'll just get hurt in the long run.


well that's not really the best way to do that. you don't have to resort to lying just to move her out of the way.