You can't stop a guy from liking you, but you can stop from dating/going out with him.

You can just simply say that you always thought of him as a friend and nothing more and would like it to stay that way (that is if you know him in real life). He would probably be hurt, without showing it though. So you shouldn't bring up the subject, if he even decideds to stay friends with you. He'll probably act all different towards you, so the friendship most likely will be gone. I hate it when things happen like this.

he is going to be messed up if you tell him that you tell him like a moth aafterwards. I found my ways around these kind of situations when I was 12 and for 2 years it has worked like a charm. If I ask a girl out or give her a sign that i have my eye on her and she doesn't respond in 2 weeks then i will stop thinking of her. Even though i still like her it is apperant that she doesn't like me or if she does she doesn't like me enough to give me a sign back. The way i though of this is when in 7th grade i liked a girl so i asked her out and she said maybe and im the meantime i was still talking to her and i really thouhgt that she liked me so a month later i asked her if she wanted to go out and she gave a rock cold NO. So for a month i was thinking about her and how i was gonna be with her and now she sais no. All though 7th grade i stayed away from dating because i didn't want that to happen again. In 8th grade i came up wit the 2 week rule and have gone on many dates with that rule and am never hurt like i was 2 years ago. So you are really going to hurt this guy now. I suggest that you tell him that you will go out but not as lovers but as friends and go out bowling a fun game should smoth things up.

Well you really can't stop someone from liking you.Just tell this person you don't like them that way and tell him its best to get over his crush and move on.For instance I had this guy that was really into me and I told him I didnot like him that way.I told him in a way that would not hurt his feelings.I was upfront and honest.But he took as I was being mean to him and I was staying over at a friends house and him and some friends of his shot up my friends house because I would not go out with him.Guys can be so obsessed with a girl that they end up doing stupid things.Thank God no one was hurt in the this incident.But please be careful.

Okay this is going to sound really mean, but I've found the best method is just completely ignoring him (if he wasn't/isn't a friend that is) I went out with this guy that I thought I liked but on our first date I found that his voice completely grated on my nerves. He really annoyed me. So I ignored him. He tried to talk to me on msn and I answered, but kept my replies short and made it obvious that I wasn't really that interested in what he had to say. And when he bumped into me at college I'd say that I had to be somewhere and that I couldn't chat. It carried on for a while like that but now I think he's got the picture and hasn't tried to talk to me. A bit harsh, I know, but I think it works fior a guy that you don't want to be friends with after.

um why don't you just tell him you don't like him like him (kiddy terms) you only like him as a freind. I mean thats what alot of girls do

Did you try telling him straight up that you dont want to? That usually works. Unless hes a stalker or a psycopath he will get the point. If hes one of those two or both.....your in a world of trouble!!! I really dont think id ask someone out over gunbound lol. By the way....what are you doing next weekend? LMAO!

The whole 'I only like you as a friend thing' is probably the worst thing for a guy to hear. I know I'd hate it if someone said that to me, and I know from what a lot of my friends say that they'd rather know what they've done wrong exactly than be told that they're 'just a friend'. they say it feels more like the truth.

It depends on what the guy is upto,i guess .. If he is really irritating you ,just ditch him .. Ignore him to an extent that he never troubles you again !! And if he asks questions like "Why didn't you call me " ,Just answer him "I was busy playing Liberty Stories" or something like that. Give him an impression that you care little to go out with him. Once he gets to know that ,i am sure he would not trouble you anymore !!!


But if the guy is not really troubling you , and is trying to be a good genuine friend with you, i really feel sorry for the guy. He must be unlucky to have a discussion going on about him ,here at a forum !!! So, apart from posting what you can do to ditch him, my heart feels sorry for that guy

This post has been edited by techclave: Nov 27 2006, 04:36 AM