 How To Get Out Of Love?, I'm in real distress |
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 Jun 16 2006, 02:34 AM
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[::Boy Wonder::]  Group: Members Posts: 2,098 Joined: 5-April 05 From: Costa Mesa, CA Member No.: 5,294   |
Interesting post. I also have a hard time falling "out" of love, much much harder than falling into it, so I probably couldn't answer the question. =/
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Jul 10 2006, 09:37 PM
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Member [Level 1] Group: Members Posts: 62 Joined: 10-July 06 Member No.: 26,420 |
If you are both in love with eachother you going to let that go just because you have diferent religious backgrounds????
 that is so not right!!! do you know how hard it is to find someone you really like and who likes you too? i mean,in this days that is really difficult! so why do you have to let her go and forget about her? no,don't do it,fight. but if you really think you must forget her then i guess the best way is to go as far as you can from her and try to get out,meet new people and find another girl. try to "replace" her. not the elegant solution but sometimes it work.
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Jul 27 2006, 06:53 PM
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Member [Level 2] Group: Members Posts: 76 Joined: 10-June 06 Member No.: 24,955 |
QUOTE(vistal @ Nov 23 2005, 11:34 PM)  I'm doing telecommunication engg. in Pakistan. I'm fallen in love with a girl. She's my class fellow. I was and still very uncomfortable talking to her because I always get nervous in front of her. I can't tell u how I managed to tell her abt I love her, but it gave me a real tough time doin' all this and of course! it took a long time. But now when I've discussed all this with her, and even she also unhided the thing that she's also involved in me, the problem is that we two can't be together due to some reasons in both of our familys' religious background. So when we both know the fact that our Love won't be able to reach its final destination, we've decided to remain as just sincere friends, BUT I can't forget that I loved her too much more than anybody else. She means to me a lot. I wanna know your opinion what should I do now to erase my memory in which she's got too much space. I feel like I'm destroying my life for what I can't get. Can you sort my problem out...? My honest openion is that if you allow religious differences to get between your love for the girl, I'm afraid to tell you that the love you have for her is not very strong. If you really love her that much, you will think of any way around the family objections due to religion, even to the extent of running away with her, but of course that is an extreme for of expression but it shows that the love is more powerful than the objections. However, if you think that the family problems are more important than the love, than I can assure you that with time passin you will feel less and less for her as it is not really love in the first place. |
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Sep 12 2006, 06:37 PM
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Newbie [Level 1] Group: Members Posts: 17 Joined: 12-September 06 Member No.: 29,817 |
Its harder to fall out of love with someone than it is to fall in love with someone. Youre going to feel things that you never thought you could feel, and youll probably see people or smell scents that remind you of her. Time heals all wounds, but no wound is deeper than a wound caused by love. Keep a full heart and exploring mind and all things will work out for the best. Good luck on finding that special someone. Theyre out there, probably going through something similar as you, waiting for their prince charming to come take her away. Your paths just havent met yet, but when they do, youll forget all about oh whats her name.....
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Jan 16 2008, 09:40 AM
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Trap Double Mocha Member Group: Members Posts: 2,360 Joined: 21-September 07 Member No.: 50,369 |
love??/
How To Get Out Of Love? Hello dear friendss :) .. I am 22 .. Been in love twice first time got over it.. Cause I thought maybe this wasn't love.. Second girl I meet after a couple of months .. When I first saw her .. She looks 18... Some one introduced us at work.( the mall) and then that night she called me we started talking.. Anyway even though I kept telling my self "I am not gonna do it .. Shes not all that.." I still fell in love with this girl.. But I didn't know if it was the right time for marriage.. Since I am only 22 .. And I have only known her for about 6 months.. Her parents wanted her to get marriage because shes old enough now.. I couldn't ask for time because I still wasn't sure if this was the right girl.. But she ended up going to Pakistan and getting married ... I was sad but I kept my self strong.. And tried to move on.. Didn't work.. She came back and I was in love even deeper .. And now I wanna marry her but shes already married.. She was staying wit her mother because she didn't wanna move in with her husband since she doesn't like him... Now after 4 months of living with her mom she moved to her husbands house... And I STILL LOVE HER.. And I know she does too .. But she acts like she doesn't .. I know shes gonna just give up and accept the life her parents chose for her.. What should I do?? long story I know sorry but I really need advice?? because I cant get her out of my mind.. I get dirty thoughts about her and her husband that I do not enjoy .. Due to that I am doing poor at work.. And social life please please reply to this :) thank you -reply by nobody |
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Mar 19 2008, 05:00 PM
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Trap Double Mocha Member Group: Members Posts: 2,360 Joined: 21-September 07 Member No.: 50,369 |
I am in LOve
How To Get Out Of Love? I am in love wid my very special friend...But she does'nt loves me at all...Every time when I ask her I always get rude reply's...She loves or I can say likes another guy in her college...Which just makes me possessive...What can I do to stay away from this love thing...Coz it just disturbs me a lot... -question by Eric |
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May 25 2008, 05:43 PM
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Trap Double Mocha Member Group: Members Posts: 2,360 Joined: 21-September 07 Member No.: 50,369 |
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How To Get Out Of Love? Hey guys... I thimk its been an healthy conversation till now.. As far as I've been thru in life, I feel its all upto the attainment of equilibrium between brain and t heart.. I love(d) a girl and she too accepted :) but then we parted off 4 some reason.. Life started to b harder on me then...But now , now its not so..It feels good to have felt and known wat really love was... Love is just a wonderfull experience not just a feeling.. You gotta pass thru t experience or still remain there ... Its all up there in t head(wat I mean by brain) to decide that.. Thinkin too much of your past gurlfriend jus means that you are mentally weak.. YOU WANTED life to be like this. But you are not emotionally strong enuf to accept it...Jus give it time... Believe me "TIME AND BRAIN ALONE WILL ALONE HELP YOU OUT" as it did for me... Keek enjoyin eryday of life... P3AC3 PaUl -reply by paul |
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Aug 6 2008, 09:41 PM
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Premium Member Group: [HOSTED] Posts: 153 Joined: 12-March 08 From: New Jersey USA Member No.: 59,194 |
Been there done that myself,
My advice my friend is to go with your heart. My wife to be is from the Phillipines and I am here in the USA. I dont mean to sound preachy but put your hands in the one above. If this is true and pure love. I promise you all will work for the best. I know it has worked for me and my lady. The Best of luck to ya. |
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