He most likely wont change at all and if so you need to leave. You dont want to be with him till your around 25-35 dealing with the same stuff you are right now.

Okay long story short. So there was this boy dan who me and my friend kate had a huge crush (everyone liked him). He had alot of parties at his house and he was just one of those guys that got along with everyone. Well he liked my friend kate so then I tried to hook them up. So then he asked her out and she said no. Me and dan became better friends after cause I was there to talk to him and make him feel better. During that time I had a really huge crush on him but had no idea he felt the same way. Then he kissed me and asked me out I asked kate if it was okay and she said it was fine, so we started dating. Everything was perfect until kate called him drunk telling him she wanted him back and that she missed him. After that he decided to dump me. And she told him that she was just drunk and didnt care and still didnt want to date him. Me and kate are still good friends. So then everything after that got crazy for a while. When things started to cool down me and dan became friends again. We have been for a while. I realized he still liked me when he asked me to prom since he graduated last year and this whole drama scene happened around that time. I said yes and that id love to go. So ofcourse we were making out at parties after the next couples of nights but for some reason I wasnt able to trust him. He hurt me so badly. I realized I had him but I was so over that whole situation I didnt want to bring the drama back. Then I started dating other guys and would only talk to him for like once every 2 weeks. Now I realized I want him back. But he doesnt want me or atleast I don't think so go figures. He just doesnt act that interested how do I make him more interested? prom is coming up and I don't really want him dancing with 5 billion other girls. Ahhh help.

-question by megan

I know just how you feel! The guy I was with was so sweet but then he started doing drugs like every night. Just this last week I broke up with him. Yea, it was hard but deff worth it. He's been trying to get back at me but I've just acted like it doesn't bother me. Just do what you want to do.

Forget him

-reply by LilLu

Alright so, it was around the end of February when a guy added me on myspace. We started talking about music and guitars and it seemed like we had alot in common. Then he asked me how old I was. It turned out I was 4 years younger than him. I asked if that was okay and he said its not that big of a age difference and that it was okay. I was pretty happy because I was starting to fall for this guy. BTW his name is Patrick. The week after we met, I went to Florida for vacation. We talked trough I'm and texted alot. And when I got home he told me he loved me. He asked if I wanted to go to his school talent show he was in. I was soooo excited but I still had to ask my parents. They wouldnt let me go. I got so upset but he comforted me and said that it was okay and that I could go to the next one. But then he saw an I'm of me and my friend talking about a boy. I only said that the guy was kinda cute.. But Patrick got really mad, said I was a young pathetic little girl. I cryed for 3 hours straight. He was very mean and I know I should have givin up on our relationship then but for some reason, I couldnt. I IMed him. I said "What if I come and see you right now?" and he said "Its the middle of the night and its snowing. Why would you want to come see me now?" I said because I loved him. So I IMed my friend and see said she would drive me there because it was sorta far away. The only problem was: I had to sneak out. I was completely determined to do it and I did. I snuck out of my home in the middle of the night; walked to her house in a snow storm and when I got there she said "Oh, I didnt think you had the guts to do it so I cant drive you there.." and her grandparents called my parents. I got in big trouble and was grounded for a long time. They forbid me from seeing him. But I couldnt do it. I couldnt stay away from him. I loved him. So he came to my village and we went to the trails. [the trails is a place behind our park and is over grown with tree's, but is enough clear to be able to go in it. And probably not be seen.] We made out there. But we didnt have sex. And then after that day the texts started decreasing. About 2 weeks later he came down again. We went to the trails again and basically did the same as before. And again the text decreased and decreased untill they came to a complete stop. I asked him why? and he said "Because I no longer love you.." I was so upset. And I havent talked to him in about a week. I cryed and cryed and cryed. Yet he feels nothing. I cant get him out of my mind. My friends keep trying to tell me that I'm better off and that he only wanted me for sex. But I still love him. I keep asking myself why I wasnt good enough, but I cant find an answer. I keep thinking there was more I could have done. That if I really cared I could have stopped all this from happening.. I don't know what to do.. Can I fix this? HELPPP!!

-reply by Alex

guy problem advice
Guy Problems

So I've been going out with this guy for 7 months now and I love him totally

But he doesnt know how to respect me
Whenever we get into fights be calls me a ***** or retarted or other words and it makes me soo upset.

Most of the time he is really an amazing person. But we have so many differences and he's my first and I cant let go.

He abuses me mentally and emotionally and I know its wrong but I just can not leave him I don't know what to do!!

-question by Nina

Why is he this way?
Guy Problems

My boyfriend is younger than I am and he likes to pick and play, but all of his jokes are hurtful. He makes comments about me being fat or something of that nature. The sad thing is is that I am actualy underweight for my height and age and I just don't get his jokes. So my question is. Why does he play like that? Is it our age difference?

-reply by nicole herrington