 What Do You Do When You Love Two People?, suggest me your relationship advice |
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 May 18 2006, 12:15 AM
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Premium Member  Group: Members Posts: 193 Joined: 20-December 05 Member No.: 15,962  |
Just find the one that your most comfortable with and who you think "loves" you as much as you "love" her/him.
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May 18 2006, 12:37 AM
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Advanced Member Group: Members Posts: 122 Joined: 13-May 06 From: Toronto Member No.: 23,592 |
I strongly agree with Moolkye.
Don’t confuse ‘love’ with something else. Put aside all things and be honest with yourself. Running away from a problem is not a way to solve it. If you can’t decide, then it is perhaps you who doesn’t ‘love’. |
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May 18 2006, 10:34 PM
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Newbie Group: Members Posts: 6 Joined: 18-May 06 Member No.: 23,899 |
QUOTE(Cody @ May 8 2006, 10:24 PM)  What do yuo do when your stuck between two people?.. two people you love all to much and know it would brake your heart to see them cry and it would brake their heart to see you with any one but them.. im lost and help less at this moment.. Pleas help me... Ouch... thats a tough one. But, you do have to break some eggs to make an omelet. Here is what I would suggest. Look at them both. Decide which one you have more in comon with. See which one you have similer interests, view, religion, etc etc. If you are looking for a future, such as marriage and kids, you need to look at if they would be a good parent. Most importantly, sometimes it is ok to be a little selfish. Think about yourself for a minute. Who makes you the happiest. Which one could you see yourself loving forever. Maybe this sounds like something from Dr. Phil, but I really think if you consider all these things, you will find yourself to become very happy! |
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May 19 2006, 10:21 PM
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Member [Level 2] Group: Members Posts: 88 Joined: 9-March 06 Member No.: 19,769 |
In my culture and society its ok to love 99 - and its also ok to have 99 wives in that matter that osama bin ladin had 500 wives and 100 husbands and over 600 children.
WEll i if ur from the middle east you shouldnt have any problems , however, the western world is quite differnt and probably im the wrong person to give u this advice sorry for bad english - im half drunk dont drink and drive peace |
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May 19 2006, 11:53 PM
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Privileged Member Group: Members Posts: 629 Joined: 26-February 05 Member No.: 3,995 |
Become Mormon.
Seriously, though, I have little doubt that what you're talking about is actually infatuation. How much time have you spent with either? How much time alone, conversing? Pick the one which you think probably likes you more, ask her out, see how it works. If it don't, you can go to the other. Unless you're like 40 years old it doesn't really matter. |
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Jun 18 2006, 08:01 PM
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Super Member Group: Members Posts: 219 Joined: 3-October 05 Member No.: 12,509 |
Ive been in this situation too many times for my liking.
I end up NOT going out with any of them because i cant stand to hurt one of them.. its for the best because you wont fell guilty or pressured buht after a while if one is still talkin to you and the other isn't and he still likes you, you can get with him because you kno that he likes you for you |
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Jun 19 2006, 09:50 AM
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Privileged Member Group: Members Posts: 822 Joined: 6-March 05 Member No.: 4,202 |
I think it´s not an easy election but it can´t be so hard. Seriously, it´s very unlikely that you´re in a love triangle so deep that you love both of them and both of them love you equally. Maybe you could put them separately in simmilar situations to see how they behave so as to know who are really interested for you, or who is most interested at least. But first think about yourself. ¿Do you love both of them or just love one and you don´t want to hurt the other? You have to choose, life is hard. Unless you´re really open-minded people and you could be a threesome.
 Uh, that´s even more unlikely, I guess.
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Oct 17 2007, 09:13 PM
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Trap Double Mocha Member Group: Members Posts: 2,360 Joined: 21-September 07 Member No.: 50,369 |
I'm in this situation right now. I know that the guy I'm going out with now is way way in love with me and completely faithful. but my x has feelings again. and I do too. it's a tough decision. but hey my guys are dealing with this problem with a fight. haha.
-taylor |
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Nov 10 2007, 03:24 PM
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Trap Double Mocha Member Group: Members Posts: 2,360 Joined: 21-September 07 Member No.: 50,369 |
Who do you see yourself with in the future? Who do you see beside you every single day? Who loves you more? Think about it and follow your heart...
-Veronica |