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post Oct 10 2005, 12:55 PM
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I'm discussing it. I'm not giving you anything. Just my opinion of it. After all, we are all here for hosting credits tongue.gif
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post Oct 13 2005, 12:32 PM
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QUOTE(tigen28 @ Oct 3 2005, 07:13 AM)
1.  I am not sure if I sounded like someone who is social but cannot have a social interaction.  You know, those kinds of people who always complain, "Where is the love of my life?" or "I am lonely, no friends, no lover!".  But it is not the case for me, I am antisocial and like being antisocial.

You know, I believe I have a similar view as you. I like my personal space and time, and whilst not a total loner, I still often enjoy doing things as an individual.

Actually, were it not for societal pressures/media influences, I don't know whether, at this stage, I (personally) would really care if I had a girlfriend or not. Among the friends that I have, the majority of them are in relationships, and it is a pain when going out in a group and they've coupled off.

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I do not know why.  Maybe it's just pure personality, taste.  Or maybe some ex-factors partially serve as the cause:  For example, not charming enough, or dull (can't make people laugh).  I mean, so many girls like guys who make them laugh, right?  Well, I'm too dull for that.  In one way, I guess I can be considered "BORING."

Same here, actually. Even my parents say I'm boring (isn't it usually the other way around?).

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Summary:  I guess on my "life goal" is making a difference and helping people.  But unless someone needs me, I would rather be with my laptop.  In other words, I like people, just that people can't find a common ground with me to start social interaction.

Once again, I agree totally. I've often thought, that to me, suicide would not be something I would consider (as naive as I might be), as it would simply be a waste of life - If I had no purpose I'd be better off dedicating myself to a worthwhile cause/charity).

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Yeah, I guess it's pretty confusing; but two of my points are anti-social doesn't mean "hating people", and being anti-social doesn't mean "wanting to be more SOCIAL"
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An important aspect to point out. In that case, what does it mean to you?
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post Oct 14 2005, 04:25 PM
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The thing is that i like it when a guy says his feelings. I think its sexy
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post Oct 15 2005, 04:41 AM
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True that, ciroxyz, as a matter of fact, I only have a little over one hosting credit left, lol. Sorry I took you too seriously. laugh.gif

Cool_Freaker, it's nice to hear that you have some similar thoughts about the subjects that I mentioned.
Yeah, parents are usally the boring ones, but hey, there's always an exception.
And to me, antisocial means "just another way of life" that doesn't seek bothersome commitments. I don't know if anyone agrees with me here, but I think that there are commitments to even plain friendships, and I'm too lazy to be obligated to do more than what my lazy self have to do.

Serentity, I almost never share my feelings outside this forum, so oh well. To tell you the truth, I sometimes wonder if those who always complain, etc. should look more within themselves for a solution.
For every downfall that one experiences, it only strengthen them internally.
To, me, anyways; though I understand that sometimes people does need help with their problems and must share their feelings.
And I admit I fall into that category sometimes, but I try to do it minimally.
Every help that I get, I feel like I owe lots to the helper, and I wholeheartedly hate that "oweing" feeling.
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