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 Aug 24 2006, 08:04 AM
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Newbie [Level 1]  Group: Members Posts: 23 Joined: 24-August 06 Member No.: 28,839  |
I need help with a girl. Not getting her, getting rid of her. She is a stalker. I go away for 3 days, she calls me at the hotel. She calls me every 10 minutes, and she is a pain. I don't want to just drop her, because that nay hurt her feelings. How do I break it off nicely?
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Aug 24 2006, 12:26 PM
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Super Member Group: Members Posts: 370 Joined: 22-April 05 Member No.: 6,024 |
why don't you just drop her, somebody who calls every 10 minutes IS a stalker, and knows that. I would just drop her you know ,
You can worry about her feelings, but what about you , she doesn't worry about the fact she is stalking you, and thats just not respectful ..she can handle it |
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Aug 24 2006, 02:29 PM
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Newbie [Level 1] Group: Members Posts: 14 Joined: 18-August 06 From: Nova Scotia, Canada Member No.: 28,461 |
I agree... Just drop her...
She knows what she's doing, sure, she might not be trying to be a stalker or may not completely realize what it's doing... But she knows at some level that she shouldn't be calling... And if you don't drop her, it may only get worse... The problem with these cases are it's hard to get rid of them in any way other than just dropping them. |
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Aug 24 2006, 08:29 PM
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Newbie [Level 1] Group: Members Posts: 15 Joined: 14-August 06 Member No.: 28,291 |
Sit down and tell her all the things that bother you about her and her actions, even though the truth might really hurt her being honest is always the best way to go....just be tactful when you talk to her ok. Is she a friend you've known for long or just a girl you just met? Are you even slightly interested in her? If not, then tell her and come clean cause if you don't put a stop to this, she might even think that you like to be called all the time and to have her on you 24/7. Goodluck!!!
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Aug 24 2006, 09:12 PM
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A clever man learns from his own mistakes, a WISE man learns from those of OTHERS Group: [HOSTED] Posts: 884 Joined: 12-April 06 From: Essex, UK Member No.: 21,719 |
Tell her youre gay, or if youre thinking of something less radica........tell her "you like someone else and you dont want to hurt her by dragging her along and dropping her at the last minute and that you want to be friends but thats all for now, who knows what the future might bring? But theres no point in wasting your life waiting for the future so maybe you should find someone else" something along those lines might work.
Atleast if she thinks/knows that youre looking after her interests it might help her move off. |
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Aug 24 2006, 11:41 PM
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Super Member Group: Members Posts: 230 Joined: 19-August 06 From: Mexico Member No.: 28,534 |
Just start to talk her constantly about some new girl that interest you... really, then she will losse the interest in you and she will stop stalking
 Or say the truth, tell her that you dont like to being called over and over but you still wanna be friends... if possible. |
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Aug 25 2006, 06:31 AM
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Newbie [Level 1] Group: Members Posts: 23 Joined: 24-August 06 Member No.: 28,839 |
I just got ticked off and dropped her. I told her not to call me ever then I barred her number from my phone. I moved on to a new girl
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Aug 25 2006, 02:26 PM
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Member [Level 1] Group: Members Posts: 72 Joined: 22-June 06 Member No.: 25,514 |
I'd say find another girl and move on!!! If she left yu then your love wasn't meant to be.
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Aug 25 2006, 04:11 PM
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Newbie [Level 1] Group: Members Posts: 10 Joined: 30-July 06 Member No.: 27,524 |
Just tell the truth to all the girls you will have in your life, if it's not a match then it's not a match. If she doesn't understand that, then she should not be dating anyone... let alone you.
You can NEVER go wrong with the TRUTH! |
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Aug 26 2006, 03:52 AM
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