What do get when you take two people on two different parts of the country, two people with their own versions of a life to be lived, their own dreams, desires and nightmares, and yet have the potential of sharing an undeniable chemistry ?...nothing!
More often than not, some of the greatest love stories and the biggest happy endings get lost in the smog of ones daily drudgery, passing each other like ships that pass in the night.

I met my girl here for the first time. a few mails, phone calls, and wham.. less than a month off.. Shes here in Bangalore, all the way from Sikkim, with me. And I am sure I speak for the both of us when I say, that this is undoubtedly the happiest time of our lives.

So, today on the occasion of our first fight as a couple (another week and we will be sharing dentures at this rate, talk about being an old couple)...we would like to thank you guys for being ...hmmmmm ...just being there!

Thanks a lot guys...

Your welcome. Keeping on topic, dating may start any number of ways. Also has two concept points:

1. Are you ready to start dating?
2. How do you commence dating someone?

I think too many people get pressured into dating well before they are ready to, both mentaly and spritually. Most younger people just look at it as a way to have someone to call thier boyfriend/girlfriend and some times regret some of the decisions they made later on in life. Often you'll couples break up and then move on to someone else only to happen again and most relationships were both parties are under 18 at the time do end and are never permenant. Yet, they act as if though they are in love and that is what causes problems of todays society.

OF course if you're ready to start dating, the next question is, "How do I ask her out?" or "How do I get a date?" and of course to some people it just comes naturally with looks or talnets then to others its more a curse because they are shy etc. etc. I believe the world would be simplier if some people took their heads from away from their *bottom* we'd have better relationships in this world not based on soley on looks. I'm Finished.

PS. We will always be here for you! Through think or Thin!

this looks like a great site for anyone who wants to become lovable.

I believe that the key to a good healthy relationship is respect.
If you have that (and there is no adequate way to test) then you are ready for a relationship.
If you mix well and the chemistry is right, then good job!
We're happy for you.

Hi room,

I agree with you, if you are think of good relationship than you have to respect for your partner and you have to understand him/her.

This post has been edited by justin3: Sep 25 2008, 08:08 AM

i met mine when she was my classmate.

not that we are still together........

hmm i hate the things about this kind of 'love' and 'dating'.... I don't know why... i just hate it

I wonder why must god creates male and female and they will need to be together? Why not just one kind and can self reproduce instead of depending or relying on others? This is very bad, since I hate and really hate such a relationship.

Never start dating or you will fail your life, this is what I believe

hate admitting it but my 1st date was set up by my mother. I was about 12 and the girl was 11 or so. sweet girl and I think my mother felt sorry for here because is had downs. We did have a nice time. went out to a movie. Mom Drove us. If I remember right we went to see Saturday Night Fever.

The girl and I did go out a couple of more times after that. and even though some of my friends thought I was nuts, she and I remaind good and close friends for a long time.