Ok, not that long ago i was in a serious relationship with a girl that i feel in love with. We were together of a little over a year and we basically spent almost all or time together and we really feel in love with each other cause i was there for her and she was there for me. And one night we got into a real bad arugment and we broke up and i thought after a few hours we were going to get back together like always but we didnt and the next day i recevied a fone call from her cousin telling me she had cheated on me and i never know and when i first heard this i just had a feeling that it all was true so i moved on with my life and now i have meet someone new and i'm really trying to move on with my life right now cause the one thats in my life right now i'm starting to love but the thing is i'm really trying not to but i keep pushing her away cause i'm kinda scared what do i do to fix this

The answer is simple your ended a relationship on bad terms with alot of qustions about it and it's weighing heavily on your mind and you feel guilty about it as welll. Best thing to do is talk to your ex to fix the problem between you and no that doesn't mean having make up sex or you will be having another problem.

Just talk to you ex calmly and sort everything out once you do this, the pain that you feel will go away to an extent.

Ok first of all most relationships do not last. If you are going to love someone make sure you are going to love them forever. Or you are in trouble. So hope that goes on ok. Good luck.

Try to look foward at someone who you beleive has more faith in you. There is always other fish in the see, and you will find another that suits your needs. So hey! dont sweat it! And I hope everyhting goes smoothly.

How do you move on to the next relationship? In a word, slowly. Relationships need to be built on a solid and stable foundation. If the foundation is weak then it will eventually crumble. Some (but by no means all) of the most important (if not critrical) aspects of a relationship is honesty, faithfulness, openness, forgiveness and compassion. If these are not present then you may find yorself on the rocky shores of destruction.

Hey Aaron,

I think that basically you should realise that your current gf and the ex are 2 different people and you should give her her chance. She was not the one who cheated on you and should not suffer as a result of a bad experience you had with someoneelse. This is also to give yourself another chance. Love is difficult to find for everyone, and if you have a shot at it, you really should not waste it. Your previous gf was silly to have blown her chance withyou, after all, name me any couple who doesn't fight occasionally, its normal. Also you should expect never to have fights with your current gf as well, its all part and parcel of life. Important thing is at the end of the day you realise that you love her.

How do i move on?
How Do I Move On To Next Relationship?

I have been with my girl for about two years. We built a lovely relationship and I was very happy. Recently something has gone in her. She changed over night. She started getting physical and manipulative. We have broken up about 3 times in the last 2 months. It has been very unstable. Today I decided to let go once and for all but I feel so guilty for moving on. I built an immense dependency on her and the idea that things were once near perfect hurts me so bad. I wish a miracle would happen but it doesn't and I have to be realistic. I just need some words of advice so I can move on and live a life in peace. Getting back with her is not an option for me anymore; it has corroded badly. If anyone can please give me some reassuring words I will highly appreciate it.

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