I'm very intered in finding out what sounds like a good date to girls.

If you girls coulds have a guy ask you out on a "good" date what would that date involve?

Generally a "good" date to a guy is any date that ends in sex lol so no other guys posting pelase!!!


Okay, what types of dates would you want to be taken out on by the following kinds of guys.

1) Someone you've known for a few months and alreayd like. "friends first" etc.

2) Someone you barely know, you just met them at a club.

Keep the dates realistic, soemhtign us guys can learn from.

Im against your word.

Lets just hope more girls answer it, so maybe we can learn something new or creative. After being with my girlfriend for over 3 years now, I have kind of ran out of ideas for when we go out. And no, I dont think that it has to end with sex for it to be considered a good date.

If its someone you've just met, good idea to take em to coffee or drink/desert of some sort.
If its someone you've known for a while, try an amusement park ^^ that's always very nice, like you can win prizes for the girl and show her that you are not scared of rides - i.e showing confidence, courage.

Yeah, like Clessi said,


But if it's someone I've known for a while, and have been pretty good friends with first I'd think a little more than that. . .although coffee and desert are still a must in some sense or another

Hmm. . .I'm liking the idea of a pretty nice romantic dinner out, or even one brought in somewhere (if he's a good cook, then one made by him sounds good). Maybe near a beach of some kind somewhere, or somewhere with a pretty view. A good movie, plenty of action for him and enough romance for me. . .not so much sad stuff though, there's enough in my life to watch a sad movie. Especially don't want something sad when I'm on a date. After that a nice walk where that view is or the beach with a great kiss in there obviously somewhere. . .not planned but spontaneous, while still being at an almost perfect time. If it's the first date, then not much more I'd say, but if it's one past that, then there could be more past that. I'm not one for going beyond making out or anything like that just because we're dating though. If it doesn't work out that you stay together for the rest of your lives, and break up without marriage being mentioned or even if it is and it's just before, you're not going to have something special for the person you do end up with for the rest of your life. But yeah, that sounds like a good one to me.

mmmm i would go out with a guy i just met from like a club or through a friend because i dont like that idea of after the date and how it would be akward if things didnt turn out. And friends friends i would only consider them friends, dont wanna risk loosing a friendship!

yes, the friendship must be saved any way... i've lost my male-friend when tried to turn our friendship into some romantic relationship

If you ruin your friendship over 'beginning' a further relationship, or trying to, then somethin has gone amiss within the friendship, or how they were treating you, or you treating them.

This is one of the perfect dates:

My fiance and I start out by taking a walk to the stores. We go shopping together (grocery, clothes, or anything) We then go and have lunch either at the Chinese buffet w/ sushi or get lunch at Publix. (I love Publix's sushi!) Then, we might rent a movie or see one at the theatre. We eat healthy, soy candy. He buys me three SoyJoy bars. (Yum!)

Any date with my fiance is great. The last date, although it was more of running an errand, was when we went walking to Publix. We bought yogurt, and then had to stop at Popeyes because it was raining. He paid for our lunch there.