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 Aug 28 2007, 08:09 AM
Hi all. If you can help them I will be greatfull. This is my story: One month ago I was just writing with my friend in one chating site. When I want to leave one girl name jade wrote me:"Hello". When I saw her photo she looks nice and I just wrote back to her..When we wrote longer she gave me her icq number and mobile number. After longer writing to this girl I found same interestings as me at her  She listen music as me,she love war films as me and she is little 158cm and i love smaller girls .And than it just started. She was still closer and closer to me.She was sending me some her photos and she is really nice for me. I send her my too and she told I'm her type. Now she gave me question if I want met her. I said Yes of course.. But I never have girl. Then I don't know how I have start our meeting. Out meeting will be at one month because my hand is still broken and fixed.. Can everyone help with some advices what I have to do when I will come to her? Thanks 
 
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Aug 28 2007, 08:22 AM
act casual, no hyperventilating, and act yourself, don't just say something you can't do, and take it easy. I recommend watching this to help you get on your feet, funny I know but it does help. http://youtube.com/watch?v=uNBi2PATwqc oh and ahh good luck! This post has been edited by csp4.0: Aug 28 2007, 08:22 AM
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Aug 28 2007, 08:40 AM
QUOTE(csp4.0 @ Aug 28 2007, 08:22 AM) [snapback]343007[/snapback] act casual, no hyperventilating, and act yourself, don't just say something you can't do, and take it easy. I recommend watching this to help you get on your feet, funny I know but it does help. http://youtube.com/watch?v=uNBi2PATwqc oh and ahh good luck! Really funny video but i will not go to her house and I haven't car  But when I come to her I have to just say Hello? Or say Hello ang give her a hand? Or say hello and kiss her at both cheeks?
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Aug 28 2007, 10:39 PM
QUOTE(Soviet @ Aug 28 2007, 01:40 AM) [snapback]343011[/snapback] Really funny video but i will not go to her house and I haven't car But when I come to her I have to just say Hello? Or say Hello ang give her a hand? Or say hello and kiss her at both cheeks?That depends on you're culture and the girl you are seeing. You most likely know what is acceptable in your culture when you meet new people. Do that. And be yourself.
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Aug 29 2007, 03:18 AM
My experience: Don't expect anything, and don't expect anything to go smoothly. Go with the flow and see what happens. Don't push anything. The one time I went to go see some girl I met online and chatted online with for over half a year scarred me emotionally for life. But I won't bore you with my story. I hope all goes well with your meeting.
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Aug 30 2007, 09:08 AM
Thanks for all advices. I will try as you are talking to be myself. I don't want to lose this girl because it is very funny at all and she like kissing  But do you think that 18years man and 16years old girl can have a future ? I don't think it can have future but have someone with this year compilation some experiences?
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Sep 3 2007, 11:30 PM
Oh please. It's the average these days for there to be two to three years between people and I think it's all dependent on the culture your in wether this relationship would be accepted. If you start doubting yourself now, even doubting a relationship before its began then we get no where in this life, there wouldnt be any point to living. You should take her to see a movie, if you don't like each other then you both sit and watch the movie with out the touching and lovey stuff tha goes with the movie and after the movie is finished you should have an opinion of where the relationship/friendship should go from ther and tell her stright or she'll tell you to take a straight. First thing is just to meet her and spend some time with her.
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Sep 9 2007, 02:02 AM
Relationships shouldn't be forced thats one good advice I think you will ever need, things will play out as it should be, If your not being yourself and she likes you then that isn't a good thing. She should accept you as who you are and if that happens then she is a keeper for sure.
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Sep 9 2007, 09:45 AM
someone once wrote on another forum the following advice: QUOTE THE INTERNET IS A BAD PLACE TO GET A GIRL!!! And just in case you didn't get it that time, I'll say it again:
THE INTERNET IS A BAD PLACE TO GET A GIRL!!!!! I cannot stress this enough. If you thought girls were screwy in real life, the net just acts as a amplifier of this screwiness. It allows them to detach from what loosely formed sensibilities they may have, and go truly 'female'. I seriously cannot make this any clearer. STOP STOP STOP trying to pick up women over dating websites, over chat rooms over whatever internet medium you are using as this isn't working and will not work. Think of the first stage of getting a woman as getting a job. Either you get referrals by somebody else or you interview for the position. To translate that itno real life, either go for somebody who you can be introduced to by a friend, so some groundwork is done and you know they arn't too screwy. Or go out and date real women you meet in your real life. Go for dinner before getting emotionally attached (as was conjectured further up this post). Meet women who don't communicate via a phone and keyboard, but rather through shaking your hand, and talking to you face to face.
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#10
 Sep 10 2007, 12:57 PM
Just be yourself. Don't lie to impress her. If she said you are her type, then you are, you don't need to do or say anything you wouldn't normally say or do. Talk to her about how nervous you are, she will be just as nervous as you, and it is much better to get those feelings out in the open, than to try to hide them. The Harder you try to hide it, the more foolish you will end up looking because nothing will go as planned. So just be who you are, do what you do, and let her know you've never dated before. If anything she will feel glad to be the only person you have chosen to date. It will be fine. Enjoy yourself and getting to know her. You will see that there is nothing to be afraid of. Blessings -Archangel
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