 First Love!, does it hurts |
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 Sep 18 2005, 06:45 PM
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Newbie [Level 3]  Group: Members Posts: 40 Joined: 18-September 05 From: Croatia, Zagreb Member No.: 12,012  |
here s my story.
i really loved my girlfriend. but she didnt loved me. she was cheating me with my best friend. should i forgive them? tell me your stories! |
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Sep 18 2005, 06:48 PM
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$p4m 0n j00 $h4m3 m3 0nc3 $p4m 0n m3 $h4m3 m3 7\/\/1c3 Group: [HOSTED] Posts: 6,305 Joined: 21-September 04 From: 9r33|\| 399$ 4|\|D 5P4/\/\ Member No.: 1,218  |
best advice drop the girlfriend and forgive the friend but let your friend know your trust with him is gone for now at least.
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Sep 18 2005, 07:32 PM
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Newbie [Level 1] Group: Members Posts: 12 Joined: 12-September 05 Member No.: 11,794 |
the answer is in your heart, only you can know the better in this situation
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Sep 18 2005, 08:48 PM
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Member [Level 2] Group: Members Posts: 80 Joined: 18-September 05 From: Massachusetts Member No.: 12,009 |
QUOTE(Tonny @ Sep 18 2005, 01:45 PM) here s my story. i really loved my girlfriend. but she didnt loved me. she was cheating me with my best friend. should i forgive them? tell me your stories!  Yes! This is the worst situation possible. Don't worry, eventually they will grow up. You just have to be the stronger one who doesn't let it bother you. Don't take her back leave them alone for a little while , eventually you will be tje better person in the situation. Did your best friend apologize? If they apologize, accept their apology but don't forget what they did. |
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Sep 19 2005, 02:17 AM
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Advanced Member Group: Members Posts: 112 Joined: 24-July 05 Member No.: 9,818 |
My first love "loved" me up untill i wouldnt sleep with her, then she "loved" me engh to tell me she was pregant and it was my fault for making her go and sleep with another guy... o.0
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Oct 7 2005, 12:07 AM
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Advanced Member Group: Members Posts: 109 Joined: 24-August 05 From: New York City Member No.: 11,087 |
For your sake and sanity do forgive but don't forget and move on. Wish them happiness because you reap the seeds you sow. Who is to say her new boyfriend won't cheat with her best friend. Karma knows no boundries and she works in mysterious way. I guarantee if somethig happens between them your the first person there gonna call for help or advice. Do not concern yourself with these 2 any longer.
Me on the other hand my first love was my ex of 7 years. He cheated on me with someone who was suppose to be a friend and a gurl from London that he met on the computer. She would come to NY to visit her family and see him. He lied to her about me then left me here in NY while he went on vacation to London to see her. He even sent me emails while he was over there with her. He and I were together for 5 years when he cheated and after spending another 2 years with him and seeing he wouldn't stop cheating I walked away on christmas that just passed. First love can hurt like hell but it can also be as sweet as sin. |
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Oct 30 2005, 05:18 PM
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Member [Level 2] Group: Members Posts: 86 Joined: 28-September 05 Member No.: 12,320 |
love always hurts, unless its not REAL. i've never been REALLY in love... so thats okay.. for me but i dont wanna feel the feeling... i already cry my eyes out because my mom doesnt let me go somewhere. (; hehe
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Oct 30 2005, 06:32 PM
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Privileged Member Group: Members Posts: 629 Joined: 26-February 05 Member No.: 3,995 |
I think that the word love is thrown around too much these days. It used to mean something, but now anyone who's been going out for a week is "in love," but then the next day they hate each other.
Also I don't believe in unrequited love. True love has to be mutual, or else it's just infatuation. If you "love" someone but they don't "love" you back it can't be actual love. |
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Oct 31 2005, 02:33 PM
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Newbie [Level 3] Group: Members Posts: 42 Joined: 3-October 05 Member No.: 12,518 |
one solution , forget this girl and choose another
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