 Why Does This Happen, blow offs |
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 Oct 15 2005, 04:20 AM
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Premium Member  Group: Members Posts: 175 Joined: 10-September 05 Member No.: 11,692  |
ok this kinda ticks me off but i want to know why people do this. i am a very passionate person and very affectionate and loving but i trust others too easily. anyway.... i went to meet this guy tonight at big boy near where i live and i get there and he gets there and what not and hes like im gonna go get something to drink i'll be right back so i say ok and i sit there and i wait....20 min later i leave hes not comming back...then i pass him and i think ok he went there and hes not gonna see me there i'll go back...so i go back....he wasnt there...i called and i blocked my # because before when i was calling he wasnt answering so he picks up and says hello i barlye get "where are you" out when he hangs up on me...sometimes people are such jerks and i know that girls blow guys off too so im not saying that its only guys who do these things...i dont know that anything would have happened tonight however...if he wasnt comming back...i didnt care if he did or not...he could have called i would have been fine with it. some people bother me...sorry but my question is why did it happen and why are people like that...
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Oct 15 2005, 05:36 AM
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Member [Level 1] Group: Members Posts: 57 Joined: 31-August 05 Member No.: 11,348 |
You said it yourself Jesse, some people are just like that. I take it this was your first time meeting this guy? It' sounds like you're a sweet gal, and he probably figured you 'd be an easy score. Unfortunatley when he saw you, he either wasn't impressed, or thougth maybe he would have to work too hard.
My suggestion, look for someone who you know is sincere, and doesn't just sound like that online, or on the phone. You'll learn the difference and meet someone who is not so shallow. |
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Oct 15 2005, 10:13 AM
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Group: Members Posts: 1,161 Joined: 9-May 05 From: Brisbane, QLD Member No.: 6,818 |
QUOTE(Jesse @ Oct 15 2005, 02:20 PM) sorry but my question is why did it happen and why are people like that. Can't tell you why it happened cos I don't know you or him but it's probably cos he has certain inadequacies which prevent him from standing up like a man and giving you a real reason for not wanting to hang out with you. I'd say it's him who's got the problem, not you. You'll be the one with the problem if you waste any more time worrying about someone who was probably too immature for you in the first place. |
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Oct 15 2005, 04:01 PM
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Super Member Group: Members Posts: 241 Joined: 9-July 05 Member No.: 9,213 |
People are just like that - cowards. Next time you see him out in public, give him a swift kick in the face.
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Oct 15 2005, 08:40 PM
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Super Member Group: Members Posts: 276 Joined: 4-August 05 Member No.: 10,273 |
Do you know that guy or is that the first time two of you met? If the answer is "first time" then who can tell what the hell he was thinking? Maybe he does not like you. Post a picture next time. Maybe he is just an *BLEEP* or a coward as someone before said. Who knows?
If the answer is "I know him" then you shoud know the answer to your question too! |
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Oct 15 2005, 11:19 PM
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Member [Level 3] Group: Members Posts: 93 Joined: 27-August 05 Member No.: 11,178 |
He sounds like a big *BLEEP*! No one deserves people like him--except people like him! Good luck in the future. I hope you can find some way to draw a line between trust and looking out for your best interest.
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Oct 16 2005, 03:17 AM
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Super Member Group: Members Posts: 205 Joined: 17-June 05 Member No.: 8,330 |
Sad, I guess it happens in life, just move on and everything will be ok.
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Oct 16 2005, 03:21 AM
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Desperately seeking "any key" to continue...  Group: Admin Posts: 3,478 Joined: 23-April 05 From: Trap17 storage box Member No.: 6,042 |
ciroxyz and Kim
This is your only and last friendly warning. You do not need to use expletive words to describe your views. Please do not use foul words in our forum. Thank you. |
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Oct 16 2005, 10:40 AM
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Super Member Group: Members Posts: 276 Joined: 4-August 05 Member No.: 10,273 |
Why not? Those words are bleep'ed anyway?
Sometimes it's the only way of describing a particular situation 
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