You know what really bugs me? Your friends that piss you off! Like I have this friend and she got asked out by a guy. They went out for 1 day then he dumped her because he didn't want to ruin their friendship. He's a really nice guy and me and all my friends (except my friends he asked out) agree with him. She had a cry about it as you do but she didn't stop there. She went on about it for ages. We were on holiday as a school at the time. We when shopping and she bought a bra. She said 'There's really no point in me getting this.' I said 'y?' and she goes 'Well now i've got no one to show it too.' As if he'd want to see her bra anyway, they only went out for a day! Geez! Anyway even after that she still went on about it. We were going on a bus and we were mean tto have designated seats but a guy took mine and hers to himself. I said we'll steal it back and she said i'm not sitting there because he ('her ex') sits behind it. So we had to try to find another seat again. I got one all to myslef so I finally could ahve a break from her whining about him. Then we were staying at a hotle and there was 6 of us in a room. All of us good friends. She went out onto the balconey to sook about him still. 2 of my other friends went out with her and my other 2 stayed inside with me. Us 3 were pissed of the most about but we kept quite. That was until one of us inside asked y she was on the balconey. One of them outside told us and my bestie inside yelled 'get over him, he doesn;t like you!' she marched through the room and said 'f*** u kristi' well kristi was upset too cause she didn't mean to sa6y it like that cause her mother was b****ing at her and she was confused and upset. So kristi and her were both crying about to different things. being my bestie i took kristis side. everyone was pissed off. the incadent calmed down we she found out kristis side of the story. the next day we were on the bus again and me and the two girls who went out onto the balconey with her were mucking around with him. she didnt say anything but i could tell she wanted to pull us away from him. he's really stupid but its really funny. she did manage to laugh a couple of times but her laughs were so fake that i felt like strangling her! anyway thats off my chest now thank god.

so can you see where im coming from? it really did bug me for the whole time i was around her. i was kinda glad when kristi yelled at her cause it sort of shut her up a bit about him. and i think he didn't want a relationship because he had just broken up with his ex from a 2 year relationship. and beside she was looking very clingy when we went to the movies. she wouldn't let him go and didn't talk much to anyone else. if that happens to me i'll get over it straight away cause im not the type of girl to cry over a guy. you could say im 'tough on the inside'! laugh.gif i cant wait til i get back to school so i can see my crush and ask him out!



This post has been edited by rejected: Jun 7 2005, 05:38 AM

Ok...so one of your friends keeps crying about a guy she barely knew? Personally, I hate people who are really insecure about themselves. If you don't have any faith in yourself, how can you get by? I hate how appearance determines if you get dates or not most of the time. Your friend was a bit dumb to be so eager to show off her body to a guy she only knew for a day. I would just avoid her until she gets over with it and tell her you're not interested in hearing her because that's what I would do - call it cold, but she has no reason to whine about it so much. On top of that, if the guy only broke up to keep their friendship going, why won't she sit next to him or anything like that?

My own generation confuses me so much ><

Wow...only for a day? Was this one of her first, second, or third boyfriends? If not then that's just sorry.. I can't understand why people have to be so dramatic about things..I guess that's why I'm a guy Anyway, bring her to a party with plenty of people or something..help her get over it and you won't be pissed about her whining.

Yeah. He was her first high skool bf. We're in grade 10. I'm glad it's holidays, even if it is only 1 week. If she keeps going on about it he won't be friends with her so it will be the exact opposite of what he wants which will probly b bad 4 her 2. I know he was her first high skool bf but most girls don't get worked up about it after 1 day like that. I may seem unsympathetic (is that a word? oh well) but all of her friends feel the same way about it. im glad i could say all this here. thanks for your support guys.

your friend really has some self -esteem issues ,people with low self esteem tend to be more and more insecure. the girl really needs somecounselling i suppose ,people forget relationships of years in days and she is crying for a guy with whom she went only for a day hooo! seeing her attitude it doesn't matter how good boyfriend she gets in the end all are going to run away seeing her insecurity .may god bless her

Ignore him. Your friend is a hitler. =((( I had a friend once who was a mixture of evil and selfishness. sorry my english not very good becos i have not study very much but this frend was not very good. once you have car he asks if i can drive. once i have food he asks if he can eat. once i got time he asks for help. you know those friends are very bad .. dump them - they are a waste of time.

now the nicest people are those that cry when they forgot to say hi for example when you pass by. ye i love them.

peace

Think of it from her point of view; a boy that she likes (and probably, has felt fondly of for more than just one day) asks her out, gets her hopes up, and then crushes them... how nice! Instead of having a supportive shoulder to cry on, she gets yelled at. If she was annoying you so much couldn't you have just let her be? And after getting yelled at by her 'friends', she tries not to bother you by pretending to be OK... and this just annoys you further. Wow. Yeah, she overreacted by a lot, but that doesn't mean you have to be so hostile towards her. You act as if her being sad is somehow an attack upon you.

I think that why she was so sad is because the guy just gived her hope and throw it all away(while she really does like him very much)...If he never liked her, why must he pretend to be, why not just tell her that he don't like her and don't give her such big hope?(hope I'm not misunderstanding)
But yea, she was a bit too annoying...

I agree. At that age, girls are REALLY sensitive. Girls still get upset at 20, 25, 30... when they get dumped like that. But I also agree that people are extremely annoying when they act like that.
It sounds like she is overcompensating for the way she is feeling (low self esteem, unwanted, depressed etc). If you want to be a good friend, talk to her about it in a genuine way. Give her an outlet for her emotions. She will end up happier, she will appreciate you more and she will be a better friend to you for it.