Hi to whoever reading this .

My girl just left me and i lost my job , i guess i neglect her and she just left me after she got a new job with new colleagues .
she treats me like a friend overnight , i cant accept it , its hard . we been together for 2yrs and been thru alot .
I been trying whatever i could , but the more i tried the further she avoids me . Now she totally dont answer my calls .
Its been a week and i cant stop thinking of her , i tried to do other stuffs to forget but no matter what i do she keeps coming to my mind .
I cried everynight , i can't sleep and i got no mood to eat anything . My friends ask me out but it seems like i dont dare to get out of my room .
I dont dare to face anyone . I keep thinking of suicide everynight . I'm really lost I donno what to do anymore , can anyone help me ??

S***! Sorry you’re feeling so low but all I can say is these things happen. I can understand why you feel you cant be friends with her because you’ve been through so much. My ex and I were together nearly four years before I left him a year ago, at first it was hard because he wanted to talk to me and I didn’t want to talk to him. Eventually he got the message and we lost contact before getting touch again only recently. I went through so many emotions of hating him and being angry and now I miss him. I still love him yes, and I sometimes hope we have a future again, but it’s the company I miss. All I ever wanted was for him to be happy. Two years is a long time, and it would have been such a difficult decision for her to make because you had something and no one wants to be alone. Don’t try and kill yourself, I’ve tried, it hurts and doesn’t solve anything; but most importantly you’re worth so much and you deserve a long and happy life.

TBH, I don't understand why exs cant be friends, I never have. Just give it time...

Don’t worry about the job; you’ll get a new one. Just try and get you mind back on track – YOU are the most important thing not your job and not your ex.

SarahScope

p.s Sorry if I’m being brutal, its one of my good but not so nice qualities.

That sounds so horrible and awful, I am really sorry for you. I agree with the comments already given, and suggest that you just force yourself to hang out with other people. Do things you have a great time doing. Maybe if you are old enough and have enough money you can go on a road trip with some friends and just get away from places that remind you of her. You know, pull a "Wild Hogs"! It's always good to get away from the old and start a new life without her.

It sucks that she's doing that to you, she's probably just doing what she thinks is best for you and doesn't want to give you hope... you both loved each other at one point, remember that the memories are real, but that sometimes love isn't meant to last forever. There is still a girl out there EVEN BETTER and you might not find her yet, but in the meantime you should spend time bettering yourself for her. Don't make the same mistakes again.

Just give your girl time. Eventually she'll be calling YOU asking for YOU back and that's when you can tell her that you moved on and are doing great.

Just hang in there! Things will get better I promise!!!

Thanks for the replies and advice ,
It feels so good to hear from you all , it just sucks at night being alone , can't help thinking .
I guess i got to endure this and wait for time ...

Thanks again for the reply i really need it

Hey there mate! First of all you must know that you are not in this alone - very similar thing happened to me and to a looooot of people I know and now I am happy again but not because of what happened afterwards but because of the way I see the world!

I know that right now it is extremely hard for you to look at the situation from a different wider perspective, but you have to and it is the only way for you to get out of it!

Life is like that, bad and really bad things do happen and they do happen all the time - even now something bad is happening to a million other people than yourself and probably they are in even more pain then you are. Just think about those poor kids in Africa or even closer to you - children with ruined families and no money to go through the month! Maybe if you look at your situation like that and realize that it is not the totally worst case scenario, you'd feel better! There are things that can be worse, trust me!

Be happy for what you have and do not feel sorry for what you do not have!

This is the only way for you to be happy...and just TRY IT - you'll see if you really think about all the bad things that are happening right now and all the things in your life the yould be much worse..you'll be happier and suicide won't be an option anymore!

Best whishes and sending you my prayers mate..

I need help and we are on a break from eath other idk...
Break Up Depression Need Help...

Okay my ex thats with me she has this past with a friend that she like but saids that she's not into him because she is happy with me but she always talks to him and complains how she can't see him cuz he lives far away and she never wants me to be around her when friends come to see her and they always flirt with her then she tells me something so she can get out of it and it makes me sad every time too.

But I know she love me and I love her but every time I'm with her I want to break up but I just cant do it cuz it will hurt her really bad but I don't know I just don't want to be with her when I'm near her

But when I'm not with her I want to be with her I guess I miss her...I don't know

And now she broke up with me saying "my mind is full and stress so I need to break up with you until my mind is clear"I know its true because she is really upset,mad, and stuff I cant explain it

And she saids she wants to be with her friends that are boys

So I'm wondering why not be with me?

So we are broken up and she wants to be back with me in a few day but I don't know if I want her back and I don't know what to do about it I'm crying every night I broke our promise to not hurt our selfs but I'm home alone at night doing it anyways cutting myself and I try not too but it happens anyways I tried to take her off my mind but it keeps coming back and I have nobody to talk to no friend nobody I'm just so lonely ii don't know what to do.

So can anyone help me please?

-Genzor