Are You A Whiner? I Hate You! :)

ya know, i really do hate whiners. i hate the negative energy that goes in to whining. i am talking about the whiners that even when you and others do everything to try and listen and help them if they need it, nothing will ever please them. they will always find a reason to whine.

i don't understand sometimes how people can go through life where something will always be displeasing to them. i mean, come on, if the whiners just see the good around them and concentrate on what they DO have instead of always concentrating what they DON'T have SELFISHLY, then they wouldn't have any reason to whine for the most part.

for all you whiners out there, see the GOOD and stop whining!

oh....and btw.....i am venting, not whining

I like winge and complain despite the fact im pretty content with my life. I moan about EVERYTHING! Immigrants, people parking in disabled places when theyre not disabled, people leaving trolleys in parking spaces, chavs, old people, middle-aged people, crap adverts, crap TV shows, annoying celebs like freaking beckham and mostly the stupidity of governments including my (UK) shambles of a government and the ridiculous US administration. Team killers in games, basically if you name it i will moan about it

That being said i am a pretty positive person, i do have the view though that if i always expect the worst ill never be disappointed! But there ya go, i dont like working with negative people who are like "oh we will never meet that deadline" Because they are right, if we all thought like that then no-one would ever meet a deadline... but there ya go!

Yea whiners transfer their negative energy to the people around them and are such wet blankets! Sadly, I have a friend who's a whiner. She's a great person actually, other than the fact that she can really whine when things get really bad, so it's sad, and I can't yell at her to shut up although I have no qualms doing it if it was other people, because I don't want to offend her. I have spoken to her about her whining before and she whines even harder and thinks that everyone who complains about her whining hates her. It gets ridiculous, so now when she whines, I just keep quiet and refrain from commenting until she stops. Everybody has their bad times. Personally, I think one should either share their problems with their close ones by discussing it in a mature way, not just whining about it, or keep it to oneself.

Hmmm, I don't know if I can classify myself as a whiner. I do usualy whine some days the whole friggin' day, and that happens when my day started bad for some reason or I am just not in the mood.
I can't say I am a whiner, but I can say most of the days I am a positive person always hoping for the best and wishing the best no matter what happens. On the contrary as I said when I am not in the mood I am very negative, nothing pleases me and I feel like the world is a stupid place (maybe it is) and I am getting suicidal like a stupid friggin' emo (I hate emos BTW)!!! Yeah, it displeases me when I see a whiner, but sometimes I'd like to get from their angle no matter how they are wrong about something and I try to understand them and hopefully help them resolve any problem they have or just give support in those moments.

This post has been edited by miladinoski: Aug 27 2008, 03:21 PM

I agree with the negative energy transfer theory. If every person (in America) has a right to the pursuit of happiness, surely whiners are hindering this process and should be ground up for food. This is one solution and probably the most effective..

Yeah, if we do that, there won't be any americans left..............

anywayz, point is......

every one has their bad times.......

Whiners just have it most of the time.....

And well, branding people is not a great hobby......

If they whine, let them be.... Personally, I just listen to them vent out all their frustrations and listen attentively. Not just stay in front of them and stare them deadly daggers of doom. nope. Really listen. It helps them get over it sooner......

I should know, I deal with at least, 2 whiners everyday that whine at least 3 times a day......

They're my siblings, and I have cousin's who whine and friends who whine and....

I just seem to attract whiners...... for some odd reason.....They all come out smiling though...... after their, eherm, "session" with me....

so all in all, let people vent when they want to so when the time comes that you want to vent, they will let you vent.....

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