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  Oct 19 2005, 05:00 PM
...Has your parent or parents pissed you off soooo much that you just wanna punch them in the face but you can't, because your living under their roof??!! AGGHHH! They blame me for everything!!! I can't believe it! And when they find out it wasn't me they can't even apologize! This is my mom's specialty! And my dad makes so many racist comments. and I'm just burning inside because I HATE discrimination SOOO MUCH! And when I try to debate about his opinion, and talk out, he calls me a "Smart arse" And mom would be all like, "I thought I told you..." YEAH, WHATEVER!?! So I almost get kicked out for that *BLEEP* experience?! HA! ...and they wonder why my grades slipped in gr. 6-7? and they wonder why I lock myself in my room? and they wonder why I have marks on my arms? I JUST WANT TO SCREAM!!!...but all that comes out is a tiny wisper. 
 
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Oct 19 2005, 05:41 PM
Well broflovski! I dont know what is your age but still I will say few things to you...you may feel bad but do think over them...and dont take them on your heart so that you dont feel bad about it...I am just giving you what I think about PARENTS and I am not commenting fully on you as I dont know your family matters but as you have mentioned some of the things them I'll certainly say something about it. Now you said that sometimes you feel to PUNCH THEM :shocked:....to hear that...they are your parents and you must respect them in any case...they care for you may be they are afraid of showing it to you becasue they might be thinking that you'll take advantage of that...can be in any sense. Now if you father is using these kind of words...then certainly I think that is wrong..becasue these kind of words must not be used by any parents atleast in front of their kids....I dont recall that my father has ever abused anyone in front of me...no matter how much angry he was. QUOTE HA! ...and they wonder why my grades slipped in gr. 6-7? and they wonder why I lock myself in my room? and they wonder why I have marks on my arms? Thirdly...I can understand that how you must be feeling...but if you have so much problems then my friend my suggestion is go and talk to them straight away...may be email this whole thread to them...so that they can read it....dont be afraid of doing this because they'll understand your situation and I am sure will take a step towards it.....or if you are afraid of doing that then ask you elders may be ur relatives to help you in this case. Just think about it and then take the step which you think is right for you 
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 Oct 19 2005, 05:48 PM
I'm ok. If I feel frustrated I don't lash out, I just do something else, reflect, or punch myself. Anyway, since the lack of communicatin is the issuse in this family (I'm guessing here) they won't listen to me, and I'll get a slap across my face (I've done this before)...hmm... mybe that's why they took away my computer for a month?
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Oct 19 2005, 07:13 PM
goshh they are soooo annoying. you do one thing and they blame you for EVERYTHING!!!! and the worst part is, you never get your say. they say that they listen to you, but they dont. they say they 'understand' but in truth, they dont! ARRRGGHH!!! 
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Oct 19 2005, 07:18 PM
Just hit them! lol go on you know you wan't to!! lol ------------------------- http:www.ancientrealm.v3.be
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Oct 19 2005, 08:15 PM
QUOTE(Cesto Ode @ Oct 19 2005, 12:18 PM) Just hit them! lol go on you know you wan't to!! lol ------------------------- http:www.ancientrealm.v3.be [right][snapback]196501[/snapback][/right] hahah! that's hilarious!
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Oct 20 2005, 02:33 AM
broflovski, As a parent, I would be proud of your position against Discrimination. There are others who don't see it this way, but perhaps some day they will. The world is getting smaller and distinctions are becoming fuzzy between cultures and races. You must be picking up your opinions from school, or elsewhere. Well, let me suggest something and see if it might make a difference in your relationship with your Parents. First of all, when was the last time you told them you loved them? They need to see that coming from you. And sometimes words are not enough. Running a household is a demanding task. Help them out in small ways. Take out the garbage (without being asked). Wash your Father's car (without being asked). If you have younger brothers or sisters, take them to a park for the afternoon (without being asked) so your parents are not looking after them. Basically, chip in a bit towards running the Home you are living in. Show them you are capable of assuming some responsibility. None of these individual things is enough, of course to re-build a faulty relationship, but often these little things will be enough to show others around you that you are interested in the relationship to change your behaviour for the benefit the others. If your family is truly dysfunctional, some "Professional" help might be in order. Start by talking to someone you trust. It might be a school teacher, or Principal, or the school nurse. Or your Family Doctor. There may be something they can suggest which will improve your living conditions. In the mean time, please be reminded that , yes, they are your parents and they love you dearly. It is genetic, I think...
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Oct 20 2005, 02:36 AM
I think today's generation is a lot different than 20-40 years ago. Especially due to technology. Also, the moral standards are much different than before. It's just a big gap to cross.
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Oct 20 2005, 04:54 AM
QUOTE I think today's generation is a lot different than 20-40 years ago. Especially due to technology. Also, the moral standards are much different than before. It's just a big gap to cross. No I dont agree to you because it's all about values and if someone follows the values properly then there will be no problems like this secondly I really like the point of JIM a.k.a jlhaslip that how many times do we say our parents that we love them...and how many times we help them in doing small small hosehold things. I know most of the kids wont understand this thing at this point of time...may be they'll understand it when they will become parents themselves and will come to know that what parents expect.....and when their own children will say these words for them...then they'll understand this. To this most of the kids will think that nah! that wont happen to me...i'll become a good father or mother....but no that's not the case.....because if one person who can't love their parents and cant understand them...can not become a good father...because according to me these people only expect things from parents or from others...they dont want to give things in return...which others might expect from them.
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Oct 20 2005, 05:07 PM
QUOTE(jlhaslip @ Oct 19 2005, 07:33 PM) broflovski, As a parent, I would be proud of your position against Discrimination. There are others who don't see it this way, but perhaps some day they will. The world is getting smaller and distinctions are becoming fuzzy between cultures and races. You must be picking up your opinions from school, or elsewhere. Well, let me suggest something and see if it might make a difference in your relationship with your Parents. First of all, when was the last time you told them you loved them? They need to see that coming from you. And sometimes words are not enough. Running a household is a demanding task. Help them out in small ways. Take out the garbage (without being asked). Wash your Father's car (without being asked). If you have younger brothers or sisters, take them to a park for the afternoon (without being asked) so your parents are not looking after them. Basically, chip in a bit towards running the Home you are living in. Show them you are capable of assuming some responsibility. None of these individual things is enough, of course to re-build a faulty relationship, but often these little things will be enough to show others around you that you are interested in the relationship to change your behaviour for the benefit the others. If your family is truly dysfunctional, some "Professional" help might be in order. Start by talking to someone you trust. It might be a school teacher, or Principal, or the school nurse. Or your Family Doctor. There may be something they can suggest which will improve your living conditions. In the mean time, please be reminded that , yes, they are your parents and they love you dearly. It is genetic, I think... [right][snapback]196624[/snapback][/right] hm... last time I said "I love you" or "I'm sorry" was in 2002-ish. And I do chip out once in a while =P
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